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Hi pescador,

Thank you for your graciousness. You are right and I was wrong. I briefly scanned your OP and my eye was caught by your closing statement and took the wrong intention of your thread.

I do agree with you about the cause of many who claim the name of 'christian' to then go out and bash people for certain sins and yet seemingly unashamed of other equally degrading sins. You mention adultery. Yes, as far as I am concerned an adulterer is just as guilty of just as serious a sin as someone caught up in same sex relationships.

One speaks here of murder, and quite honestly, if we look to the destruction of the soul and spirit before God, same sex relationships are no different than even murder. Adultery is even murder. Jesus even spoke about one who gets a divorce and remarries as being the destroyer of even their new spouses soul. He said that if a man gets divorced and remarries that he causes his wife to become an adulterer. That's a tough teaching for us to accept. But, they are all sins for which our Savior paid the price if we are willing to accept that forgiveness on God's terms. I believe that even Paul may have struggled with this issue of sin in our lives even though we may be born again. He wrote of how it was sin warring in his body that kept him from doing the things that he knew he ought to do and not doing the things that he knew he should do.

The answer, of course, is to try to tell them about Jesus. Help them to understand that their sin can and will be forgiven, if...

I understand your work here. I have similar concerns with those who march at abortion clinics. We, believers, believe that somehow we can make sinners live like us. Only Jesus can make sinners live like us. We make such a big issue of a poor child being lost who will never live, but even that sin will be forgiven. We are here to minister to the living. To show the love of Jesus to those who are alive and yet have the chance to take hold of the gold ring of eternal life. The promise of our God to all who will believe. That is our job!

God bless you.
In Christ, Ted

This is a truly excellent post. As Christians we should have the same heart as God, who loves the whole world. Even in Romans, which is often cited as an example of God's wrath toward idolaters, homosexuals, murderers, and others, he doesn't actively punish them but simply abandons them to their own lusts. I strongly believe that it is our job as Christians to love everyone (even our enemies) and so lead them to Christ. I don't think that anyone will repent because some self-righteous "Christian" criticizes them. It's appropriate to point out the shortcomings of another Christian because they are supposed to have an understanding of God's will, but unbelievers have no such understanding.


Thousands didn't follow Jesus because he criticized or demeaned them but because he loved them.
 
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Hi pescador,

Thank you for your graciousness. You are right and I was wrong. I briefly scanned your OP and my eye was caught by your closing statement and took the wrong intention of your thread.

I do agree with you about the cause of many who claim the name of 'christian' to then go out and bash people for certain sins and yet seemingly unashamed of other equally degrading sins. You mention adultery. Yes, as far as I am concerned an adulterer is just as guilty of just as serious a sin as someone caught up in same sex relationships.

One speaks here of murder, and quite honestly, if we look to the destruction of the soul and spirit before God, same sex relationships are no different than even murder. Adultery is even murder. Jesus even spoke about one who gets a divorce and remarries as being the destroyer of even their new spouses soul. He said that if a man gets divorced and remarries that he causes his wife to become an adulterer. That's a tough teaching for us to accept. But, they are all sins for which our Savior paid the price if we are willing to accept that forgiveness on God's terms. I believe that even Paul may have struggled with this issue of sin in our lives even though we may be born again. He wrote of how it was sin warring in his body that kept him from doing the things that he knew he ought to do and not doing the things that he knew he should do.

The answer, of course, is to try to tell them about Jesus. Help them to understand that their sin can and will be forgiven, if...

I understand your work here. I have similar concerns with those who march at abortion clinics. We, believers, believe that somehow we can make sinners live like us. Only Jesus can make sinners live like us. We make such a big issue of a poor child being lost who will never live, but even that sin will be forgiven. We are here to minister to the living. To show the love of Jesus to those who are alive and yet have the chance to take hold of the gold ring of eternal life. The promise of our God to all who will believe. That is our job!

God bless you.
In Christ, Ted

Hi Ted,

I agree with you, and perhaps pescador on a limited basis, that we as Christians are not called to fight a culture war. We are called to fight a spiritual war and our battle is not against flesh and blood. However, the meat of his post marked "homophobes" is arguing that sexual relations between homosexuals is fine if they "love eachother". He claims this isn't shameful, and what God is concerned about is if they love eachother. This is of course a complete distortion of the scripture; homosexual relations are an abomination to God according to His word.

With this statement pescador attempts to a create a distinction between homosexuals who are consumed with "extreme lust", and "normal" LGBTs who love eachother:

"The emphasis is on people who are consumed with extreme lust, so much so that they commit "shameful" acts with others of the same gender. This doesn't describe LGBTs"

He is distorting Gods word to the uttermost and I am pointing this out to you brother because you seem to be in agreement with his post. His post is not just a polemic against Christians being spiteful towards homosexuals, it is attempting to redefine what scripture says about them and thus twist and pervert Gods word.
 
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Hi Ted,

I agree with you, and perhaps pescador on a limited basis, that we as Christians are not called to fight a culture war. We are called to fight a spiritual war and our battle is not against flesh and blood. However, the meat of his post marked "homophobes" is arguing that sexual relations between homosexuals is fine if they "love eachother". He claims this isn't shameful, and what God is concerned about is if they love eachother. This is of course a complete distortion of the scripture; homosexual relations are an abomination to God according to His word.

With this statement pescador attempts to a create a distinction between homosexuals who are consumed with "extreme lust", and "normal" LGBTs who love eachother:

"The emphasis is on people who are consumed with extreme lust, so much so that they commit "shameful" acts with others of the same gender. This doesn't describe LGBTs"

He is distorting Gods word to the uttermost and I am pointing this out to you brother because you seem to be in agreement with his post. His post is not just a polemic against Christians being spiteful towards homosexuals, it is attempting to redefine what scripture says about them and thus twist and pervert Gods word.

Is it all right for me to respond to this post or would you rather speak for me by "putting words in my mouth"?


The point of my post is that many people use Romans to condemn all LGBTs, only that's not what it's about. It's about idolaters, who are then inflamed with inappropriate sexual lusts, and then proceed from there to envy, murder, strife, deceit, hostility, become haters of God who contrive all sorts of evil, and more. If you think that this describes decent, honest people who are in loving same-sex relationships, you really have a problem!


The point is: why are you and others obsessed with what goes on in the bedroom between decent, loving adults? What do you think goes on in the bedrooms of some heterosexuals? (Let your mind dwell on that for a moment and tell me how pleased God is with them!) Why are you so worked up about sex instead of the state of people's hearts? Jesus said "by their fruit you shall know them", not by their sexual preferences. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. That is how I form my opinions of people. If they lack those qualities (which unfortunately includes many homophobes and other self-righteous haters) then I have no regard for what they say. "The good person out of the good treasury of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasury produces evil, for his mouth speaks from what fills his heart." (Luke 6:45)
 
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The point of my post is that many people use Romans to condemn all LGBTs, only that's not what it's about. It's about idolaters, who are then inflamed with inappropriate sexual lusts, and then proceed from there to envy, murder, strife, deceit, hostility, become haters of God who contrive all sorts of evil, and more. If you think that this describes decent, honest people who are in loving same-sex relationships, you really have a problem!

You really can't see it, can you? Verses 21-22 describe the psychiatrists of the APA who deemed homosexuality as natural (this isn't prophecy specifically about the APA. It describes the humanist tendency to think we can tell God what is right and not right.). Verse 23 is about the humanist tendency to turn God into a being subject to our own whims. then, it describes the humanist tendency to elevate animals above all (snail darter, spotted owl, etc).

Verse 24 goes back to the idea that men have determined that homosexuality is normal, so we see people given up to impurity due to lusts and exchanging the truth for a lie. Then, we have 26-28, which describe gay sex, and the penalties for this unnatural act.

Verses 29 and on explain that these people are then given up for all the other sins that they desire since they've already corrupted their bodies and hearts so thoroughly.

The "idolatry" is you worshiping your own desires and deciding that what is unnatural is actually natural. Your PRIDE is your idol, and verses 21-32 describe how your PRIDE is destroying you.
 
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If you think that this describes decent, honest people who are in loving same-sex relationships, you really have a problem!

I have a problem when people twist and distort Gods word. The text describes any and all same-sex relationships, and this is confirmed by many other scriptures both in the old and new testament. No matter how decent and loving the person may be in your eyes, if they are practicing homosexuality they are living in sin.

why are you and others obsessed with what goes on in the bedroom between decent, loving adults?

The only thing I am obsessed with is the integrity of Gods word. You have falsely tried to label everyone who disagrees with you as homophobic; you are clearly the one who is obsessed with this topic. I love the homosexual as much as I love the liar, the murderer or any other lost person. The only thing I am refusing to do here is to deceive myself, as you have, about the crystal clear meaning of scripture when it refers to the practice of homosexuality.
 
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I don't really see the point of my continuing this thread. I'll leave with this: For God so loved the world (excluding LGBTs?) that he gave his one and only son so that whoever believes in him (excluding LGBTs?) will have everlasting life. It saddens me that some of you are Pharisees who are unable to love humanity -- all of it -- as God does. All you can see is sin in others (but not yourselves) and totally miss God's example in Jesus Christ, who came as a servant to redeem all of humanity. He spent a lot of time with people whom you would consider unacceptable, some of whom were undoubtedly LGBTs. In your self-righteousness you have missed the fundamental fact that God is love and that Jesus never condemned anyone for being homosexual -- he never even mentioned it. You can prove anything by selecting a few verses from Paul's epistles, but you are straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel. Jesus said to love our neighbor as yourself and that is what I intend to do. Farewell.
 
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I don't really see the point of my continuing this thread. I'll leave with this: For God so loved the world (excluding LGBTs?) that he gave his one and only son so that whoever believes in him (excluding LGBTs?) will have everlasting life. It saddens me that some of you are Pharisees who are unable to love humanity -- all of it -- as God does. All you can see is sin in others (but not yourselves) and totally miss God's example in Jesus Christ, who came as a servant to redeem all of humanity. He spent a lot of time with people whom you would consider unacceptable, some of whom were undoubtedly LGBTs. In your self-righteousness you have missed the fundamental fact that God is love and that Jesus never condemned anyone for being homosexual -- he never even mentioned it. You can prove anything by selecting a few verses from Paul's epistles, but you are straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel. Jesus said to love our neighbor as yourself and that is what I intend to do. Farewell.

I don't think I've seen a post on this thread which said Gods love excludes homosexuals. You have compromised scripture, plain and simple, and that is the only thing I have a problem with, personally. Jesus never condemned bestiality either, but does that mean that God is okay with it? It doesn't matter whether Jesus was silent on it or not (He did say marriage is between a man and a woman); the Holy Spirit, speaking through Paul, was not silent on it. There is no difference between the words of Jesus and the words the Holy Spirit inspired Paul to write. Your arguments hold no water and your attempt to frame everyone who disagrees with your interpretation of scripture as homophobic is ridiculous.
 
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I don't really see the point of my continuing this thread. I'll leave with this: For God so loved the world (excluding LGBTs?) that he gave his one and only son so that whoever believes in him (excluding LGBTs?) will have everlasting life. It saddens me that some of you are Pharisees who are unable to love humanity -- all of it -- as God does. All you can see is sin in others (but not yourselves) and totally miss God's example in Jesus Christ, who came as a servant to redeem all of humanity. He spent a lot of time with people whom you would consider unacceptable, some of whom were undoubtedly LGBTs. In your self-righteousness you have missed the fundamental fact that God is love and that Jesus never condemned anyone for being homosexual -- he never even mentioned it. You can prove anything by selecting a few verses from Paul's epistles, but you are straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel. Jesus said to love our neighbor as yourself and that is what I intend to do. Farewell.

Homosexuality is physical fulfillment of a persons lust of the flesh of another person of the same gender. The love of the spiritual kind, such as loving someone's unseen attributes is not what is indecent. In that way, many people of the same gender love each other deeply.

The lust of the same gender's physical body is vain and fruitless.

Seeing that God created male and female to physically marry their bodies to create another body makes coupling belief in God and accepting homosexuality ridiculous.

A man and a woman marry their bodies and create another body. Christianity invests tremendous value in pure unity. Pure unity between two persons is when a man's physical body can join with a woman's physical body, while simultaneously the man's spirit is joined with the woman's spirit in love. The bodies make another body, and their spirits joined in love make a solid spiritual foundation that occupies the body that both physically made together.

It is not our place to make you accept the truth, but it is our duty to inform you of it. I think it's important to be aware of the subtle deceptions that can lead us down a bad path. I believe you mean well, and display compassion and mercy, but someone or something has slithered its way in and used those against you very cunningly.

Keep your guard up.

I wish you peace and happiness. God bless.
 
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The multiple responses from BryanW92 are pretty much what I expected from him, judging by his other posts. He assumes that I am gay, which I'm not. I've been happily married for many years, am a father and a grandfather and have never had a homosexual experience in my life. I didn't state this in the OP on purpose, since people such as Bryan would assume from their closed minds that a heterosexual couldn't say such things. So that point has been made: the judgment from such a person is predetermined, just as it was for the priest and Levite who passed by their neighbor.
It may not have been proper for Bryan to assume you were homosexual, but it's no less improper to accuse him of holding to a "predetermined judgment" regarding homosexuality.

Second, God expressedly forbade adultery under the law, yet Jesus forgave the woman who was caught in the act of adultery. Again, Bryan assumes that I approve of adultery which is not only way off topic but also untrue. Again, judgment is made from a judgmental heart and has no basis in fact or truth. We are commanded to love our neighbor -- all our neighbors, not just some of them.
Again, isn't accusing someone of being judgmental also judgmental?

W/r to Jesus forgiving adultery, yes He did. He forgives the believer of ALL sin, be it adultery, lust, hate, homosexual behavior, and even judgmentalism. Forgiving sinful behavior however should not be construed as acceptance of such behavior.

A Rhys quotes Leviticus -- the law -- which has no relevance since Christians have died to the law and are alive in Christ. thesunisout responds similarly. The law has no relevance unless you are a Jew and live under the Old Covenant. If you follow the law of God, not only are you denying Christ but you had better keep all God's commandments. IF you have a ham sandwich you are as guilty in God's eyes under the law as the LGBTs you condemn by the law.
And yet Jesus never annulled the Law. Indeed, His purpose was to fulfill the Law. Mt 5:17

miamited goes even farther afield, equating love and sex and bringing rape into the discussion. Equating rape and homosexual sex between consenting partners is almost as far from logic and truth as you can get. I say almost because abysmul brings pedophilia into the discussion. Why not compare beastiality with looking at a woman lustfully while you're at it? It is tragic where some let their minds take them.
The tragedy is how a culture can go so far astray as to rationalize sin, to pervert Scripture to their own selfish ends so as to justify behavior God has plainly denounced as sinful. Worse is when that culture contains a growing number of those who call on His Name, who participate in, and even promote the deception.

miamited saves the day in his second post, saying "Love is not sex and sex is not love. Love is caring for and about someone else's well being often over our own. It seems to me that if someone loves another then the last thing they would want is to pull that other person down into the pit with them. Sex is merely one manifestation of love, but only when enjoyed within the context for which God intended it to be shared. Otherwise it's just us seeking to gratify the desires of our flesh." The question is: is it wrong to love somebody of the same sex? I don't care what goes on in the bedrooms of anyone else, whether they're gay or not. (What goes on in the bedrooms of "straight" people? Is it always "conventional" (biblical) intercourse? Give me a break!!)
The discussion about homosexual behavior has nothing to do with love or emotion.

Homosexual behavior is nothing more than gross self indulgence. It is a sin like any other sin in the sense that it's wrong in God's eyes.

Homosexual behavior does not define a relationship any more than sex defines the heterosexual relationship. It is an act, a physical act. And while God *DOES* sanction the physical act between a husband and his wife, He has never sanctioned sex between two members of the same gender. Never.

Appeals to "love" - the "love" that may exist between two men or two women are easily dismissed as rationale for arguing therefore that sex between them is therefore somehow sanctioned by God. They're nonsense. If sex between two men or two women is an abomination to God - and God is clear on that matter - then whatever "love" that may exist between two men or two women as would drive them to engage in an abominable act in God's eyes is, by all logic equally abominable. So the "love" argument is a sham and a deception as well.

Again, if people love others of the same gender, why are some so quick to judge them and condemn them to hell while remaining silent about other sins that are far more destructive to society? Who is guilty of the greater sin? (Hint: Jesus didn't condemn the woman caught in adultery, but her judges left in shame and humiliation.)
"Love" for the same gender I addressed above.

The argument that there are "far more destructive sins" than homosexuality might, albeit with great difficulty, *might* have a kernel of truth to it - IF God viewed sin in terms of degree. Unfortunately, He doesn't. Sin is sin, and even the slightest sin is sufficient to send us to eternal damnation so that argument is pointless.

W/r to the adulterous woman, I addressed that above - that Jesus didn't condemn her in no ways means He condoned her behavior. In fact, if you read what He said immediately after saying "neither do I condemn you" was "go, and sin no more."

Homosexual behavior - sex between two people of the same gender is a sin. God considers such behavior abominable. Such behavior will not permit those who engage in it to inherit the kingdom of God. I Cor 6:9.

Is it right to condemn those who engage in such behavior? No, certainly not. But we need to speak the truth, and speak it in love. Such behavior is sinful - as are all other behaviors God has told us are sinful. And we all sin. But if we're not permitted to call sin 'sin,' and are judged and condemned with even greater ferocity, and even ridiculed for calling this particular sin 'sin' (as the world has always been wont to do), then who are the truly phobic people?

And please, stay on topic if you can.
The thread title is "Homophobes." That word refers to people who fear homosexuals, but is more commonly used as a pejorative against those who speak out against homosexuality. The OP seems to apply to the latter. Is that indeed the topic of this thread?
 
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I'll leave with this: For God so loved the world (excluding LGBTs?) that he gave his one and only son so that whoever believes in him (excluding LGBTs?) will have everlasting life.

No one, including me, has said that God's love excludes gays. His love extends to all sinners, which is to say all people. But, the point that you fail to see is that practicing homosexuals are unrepentant sinners. He still loves them, but as a just God, he has already told us what the punishment for unrepentant sin is.

I was wrong in thinking that you are a homosexual, but your posts in this and many other threads have always be consistently in favor of gay sex. You don't stop at same-sex attraction or even platonic love between two people of the same sex. You always advocate that they should take their relationship to the bedroom as their only possible expression of love.

If is you who really hates homosexuals because you tell them to go against nature and to sin proudly. Telling someone to stop sinning isn't hate, but telling them that their sin is not even a sin is surely the most destructive thing you can do to them.
 
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If is you who really hates homosexuals because you tell them to go against nature and to sin proudly. Telling someone to stop sinning isn't hate, but telling them that their sin is not even a sin is surely the most destructive thing you can do to them.
Agreed. Worse yet is telling them it's 'normal.' Worse still that it's approved by God.
 
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Why does it matter if they are sinning if they don't know Jesus? This isn't a critical question, I really want to know. Wouldn't their fate still be the same if they stopped being gay yet they don't know Jesus?
 
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Why does it matter if they are sinning if they don't know Jesus? This isn't a critical question, I really want to know. Wouldn't their fate still be the same if they stopped being gay yet they don't know Jesus?
Well, the debate isn't about their fate, per se; it's about whether or not homosexuality is indeed a sin in God's eyes. Modern culture is shifting away from it being a sin to it being "normal," and "loving," and "since God is love, homosexuality is perfectly ok," and other similar rationalizations. There are many, including many who identify as Christians who not only deny that homosexuality is a sin, but who actually promote it, encouraging people tempted with the sin to go ahead and fully embrace it. That's what the debate is about.
 
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Well, the debate isn't about their fate, per se; it's about whether or not homosexuality is indeed a sin in God's eyes. Modern culture is shifting away from it being a sin to it being "normal," and "loving," and "since God is love, homosexuality is perfectly ok," and other similar rationalizations. There are many, including many who identify as Christians who not only deny that homosexuality is a sin, but who actually promote it, encouraging people tempted with the sin to go ahead and fully embrace it. That's what the debate is about.

OK. I understand now. :)
 
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I find it ironic how fat preachers will turn blue from ranting about the sin of homosexuality but never about the sin of gluttony.

1 John 1:10 - If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
Except this isn't about the sin of gluttony, or thievery, or adultery, or immorality, or anger, or any other of a host of sins... it's about the sin of homosexuality.

Nor has anyone here made the claim that we haven't sinned.

If it's irony you're seeking, and given we're all sinners; me, you, everyone who's posted here, everyone who may read this.. everyone and anyone, by your logic who dares repeat God's word to say anything is sinful - is guilty of the sin of hypocrisy.

And for the record, you just called gluttony sinful.

How.... ironic.
 
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It's ironic how when someone starts a thread about homosexuality, some of us start saying well such and such are sins too. But that's not point. I know I am guilty of that as well. But we just got to realize we don't have to participate in the discussion of homosexuality if it bothers us. People should have the right to discuss whatever they like. And I am starting to realize that.

I struggle with homosexual desires myself, but I don't live the lifestyle, so it's a sensitive subject to me.

Yes, sometimes I feel like Christians lack love when they preach against homosexuality. They sound like a little kid who taunts his brother who breaks the window saying "ooh you're in trouble." The taunting kid is speaking the truth, but he sounds happy that his brother is going to get it. I have heard Christians use pedophilia, rape, murder, stealing, and beastiality when talking about homosexuality. These offend gays because they are unable to see the connection. They know that pedophelia is bad, it hurts a human being. They know all the other sins are bad as well, for it hurts other people. I don't know how many gay people feel about beastiality, but it's gross to me. But again, I also struggle with perverted desires.

But that's why Christians appear to be hateful when they preach.
 
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I think your argument fails as soon as you call people of God a pejorative that reflects a bigoted blanket condemnation of those who cleave to God's word.
What kind of phobe does that make you?


The book of Romans has once again becoming the focus of a local church. Despite the fact that chapter one focuses on the sinful natures aroused by idolatry first, then the shameful lusts that produce unnatural sexual relations, then the depraved mind that results in "every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity...envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice", etc. it is amazing to me that such sins as murder(!) are ignored by them, choosing instead to attack LGBTs instead. However, let's look at what Romans really says about "homosexuality"...

The emphasis is on people who are consumed with extreme lust, so much so that they commit "shameful" acts with others of the same gender. This doesn't describe LGBTs who love one another and have normal, romantic sex, any more than calling me a heterosexual means that I am a sex addict. If people are consumed with lust and commit "shameful" acts it's because it's shameful for a heterosexual to be so driven that they aren't content with normal sexual relations and can't restrain themselves. If an LGBT has sex with a partner whom they love, why is that shameful?


Secondly, why is that of so much concern to people?? Personally I don't care what sexual relations people have; I'm concerned that they love each other (which is what God is concerned with, after all). There are many activities with which God is displeased and I believe that same-sex behavior is near the bottom. The second commandment describes idolatry, the sixth through the tenth describe murder, adultery, theft, false testimony, and covetousness. Homosexuality isn't mentioned, and Jesus never mentioned it. (Only Paul wrote about it, in Romans and 1 Corinthians, where it's included with idolaters, adulterers, the greedy, drunkards, revilers, and swindlers, in a description of the unsaved, which of course nobody includes in the discussion. He also follows it with saying that "everything is lawful for me".)


I know that people (homophobes) will come "out of the woodwork" filled with rage concerning this post, forgetting the commandment to love our neighbor as ourselves and leave judgment to God, but I think it's worth a discussion among the rest of us. If you want to flame me, be my guest; I could care less. A fit of rage is a sin and I Corinthians 6 says that "all things are lawful for me" (meaning every believer). Show me what's wrong with people -- anyone -- loving another person.
 
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It's ironic how when someone starts a thread about homosexuality, some of us start saying well such and such are sins too. But that's not point. I know I am guilty of that as well. But we just got to realize we don't have to participate in the discussion of homosexuality if it bothers us. People should have the right to discuss whatever they like. And I am starting to realize that.

I struggle with homosexual desires myself, but I don't live the lifestyle, so it's a sensitive subject to me.

Yes, sometimes I feel like Christians lack love when they preach against homosexuality. They sound like a little kid who taunts his brother who breaks the window saying "ooh you're in trouble." The taunting kid is speaking the truth, but he sounds happy that his brother is going to get it. I have heard Christians use pedophilia, rape, murder, stealing, and beastiality when talking about homosexuality. These offend gays because they are unable to see the connection. They know that pedophelia is bad, it hurts a human being. They know all the other sins are bad as well, for it hurts other people. I don't know how many gay people feel about beastiality, but it's gross to me. But again, I also struggle with perverted desires.

But that's why Christians appear to be hateful when they preach.
Jesse, thanks for sharing that. It's a sensitive subject for me as well - and for precisely the same reasons.

It's magnified though when the culture is changing as it is and people, including many who identify as Christians, begin to assert that homosexuality is not a sin, that it's somehow "normal" or worse, that God not only doesn't find it abhorrent, but that God actually condones it - which of course is a lie.

There are certainly many lies out there, many untruths being promoted by those who are not of the faith or who are perhaps ignorant of the truth; so why the [perceived] emphasis on this particular lie?

In truth, I don't think there's any unusual emphasis being placed on the lie that homosexual behavior is ok - except that emphasis that exists to counter the obvious emphasis being exerted these days to promote the lie. Iow, it's a huge issue right now in our culture and both sides are squaring off on it; and for us who believe it to be a lie, I think it's important we stand up and denounce it as a lie - for if we don't, the warning to us who stand silent when the enemy attacks is that we will be held guilty of the damage done to those being attacked, to those who swallow the lie (Ezekiel 33:6; Matthew 18:6).

No one, save perhaps a few fallen kooks like the Westboro cretins, takes any pleasure in this battle. I know I don't. But we need to speak up when lies are uttered because if we don't, we'll be held accountable for our silence.
 
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