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Holding Out

Tenorvoice

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stormgade4 said:
If any end in view is other than marriage, you are wasting your time.
THis is exactly what I am looking for in my life to happen ( I have no idea tho when Gods time for me will be). I just pray that when the time does come that I will know without a doubt!!!! Which is why I am trying to keep those feelings for this special young lady pushed down and veiw her as nothing more right now that my Sister in the Lord Christ Jesus.

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looksgood

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stormgade4 said:
If any end in view is other than marriage, you are wasting your time.
LOL, you know there are people who seem to always yell TOO FAST YOU NEED TO SLOW DOWN!!! But you are right...if you are not in something for the distance then why be in it at all? I have known my gf for a little over a month now...well maybe two if you count the friend only part of knowing her. But if I didn't see it leading to marriage then I wouldnt be in it. I hear everyone yelling SLOW DOWN YOU SHOULDN'T BE THINKING BOUT MARRYING HER ONE DAY!!! But guess what...when you know you know. And God had His way of showing it to us. He actualy answered our prayers because we were not going to move until He spoke. Both of us asked God to do certain things and have each other say and do certain things if He wanted us together. We both seen those things happen and heard those things said. Niether of us knew each other had asked for those things until all of it was shown. So I know God is in it, and He is blessing us both greatly. I am not holding out for another, because I know she is the one God had planed. So maybe you should ask...if the person is holding out, then maybe they are not the one planed for you anyway?
 
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