We'll have to disagree about this. Remember the conflict between Patriarch Shenouda III and Abbot Matta el-Meskeen? The latter had EO leaning that went against the Catholic leanings of majority of the hierarchy.
I do recall that conflict, to some extent, although it struck me as insignificant compared to the conflicts between Abbot Matta, Memory Eternal, and Pope Shenouda’s predecessors. It did not strike me as an EO vs. RC thing. Also, Pope Shenouda, Memory Eternal, while a great leader, was not infallible - Papal infallibility is not claimed by either the Greek or Coptic Popes of Alexandria, although the Greek Pope is styler His Beatitude Theodore II, Pope and Patriarch of Alexandria and All Africa, 13th Apostle and Judge of the Universe, despite being second in dignity among EO Patriarchs after His All Holiness Bartholomew, the Ecumenical Patriarchate of Constantinople.
Now, part of the reason why I don’t interpret the incident with Matta el Meskeen as being some kind of EO apologia within a Coptic context, is because the two generally got on well and were reconciled before the Abbot’s death, when Pope Shenouda visited him in 1996; the reforms of Coptic monasticism, which have an Athonite flavor, implemented by Abbot Mesheen, continue to stand, and also around the same time as their final brotherly retreat together, or shortly after, at some point in the 1990s, Pope Shenouda entered into an ecumenical agreement with his Greek Orthodox counterpart, whose name escapes me, but may his memory be eternal, who was killed if I recall in a helicopter crash, which established limited intercommunion so that Copts and Alexandrian Greeks, including converts in the mission field and members of the then-growing diaspora in South Africa, could freely marry each other and their children could be baptized in either church and they could receive the Eucharist in either church. It was not as emcompassing as the 1991 agreement between His Beatitude Patriarch Ignatius IV, memory eternal, and His Holiness Patriarch Ignatius Zakka Iwas, memory eternal, both of Antioch, the former of the Antiochian Orthodox Church and the latter of the Syriac Orthodox Church, but it was still a major breakthrough, and my understanding is that in practice, relations are even warmer.*
Now, that said, if you want to share why you feel the way you do, I am happy to hear you out; rather than agreeing to disagree, I prefer to think I am of sufficient humility to find out and update my mental model of the world when someone who is more knowledgeable does me the service of providing accurate correction, and from my interactions with you I have invincible confidence that you share this trait with me, and I am curious why you felt that way, because I had interpreted Matta El Meskeen’s Eastern Orthodox style reforms as being something that were resisted by Pope Shenouda’s predecessors, who did have a serious mistrust towards him, but were embraced by Pope Shenouda and are part of his legacy.
This is why the Jesus Prayer, for example, has become extremely popular in Coptic Orthodox monasticism, whereas previously it was memorization and recitation of the canonical hours and especially the Psalms proper to them in the Agpeya (the part of the Divine Office, specifically the prayer book in which most of the Psalter except for those Psalms used liturgically or as Odes in the Psalmody, are contained, and divided between the canonical hours of Prime, Terce, Sext, Noone, the 11th Hour, the 12th Hour, and the Prayer of the Veil, used mainly by clergy and monks before retiring; each office is fixed (the hours are the same every day except in Holy Week) unlike the Psalmody, which changes daily and consists of Vespers, Nocturns and Matins (the other part of the Coptic Divine Office is the Morning and Evening Raising of Incense; each of these likely originated differently, with the Psalmody and the Agpeya probably representing two schools among the early monastics, with the Morning and Evening Raising of Incense being remnants of a Cathedral Office; this is the opinion of Fr. Robert Taft, SJ, Memory Eternal, and I share it).
However, I am not familiar with every detail of the drama and I do know of the tensions that did occur, but not their full extent, because there have been other incidents more dramatic, such as the schism in the Ethiopian church, between the Ethiopians and the Copts after the Copts granted autocephaly to the Eritreans, after the Eritreans became de facto independent, and then the horrible schism between the two main Syriac Orthodox jurisdictions in India, and now the tragedy in Eritrea and the state control and persecution of the Eritrean church and the Islamic State incidents.
*I have also reliable reports of Copts receiving communion at St. Catharine’s Monastery, which is the seat of the autonomous Archbishop of Sinai, the Church of Sinai being the smallest autonomous Eastern Orthodox Church (autonomous but not autocephalous; they are under the Omophorion of the Patriarch of Jerusalem whose Holy Synod gets to appoint the Archbishop, much like any other autonomous Orthodox church like the Jacobite Church in India, the Maphrian of which is appointed by the Syriac Orthodox Patriarch of Antioch,* or the Finnish Orthodox Church, which is under the Omophorion of the Ecumenical Patriarchate, or the Orthodox Church of Japan, which is under the Omophorion of the Moscow Patriarch, or the Church of Montenegro, which is under the Omophorion of the Serbian Patriarch.
**there is a nasty schism with that church and the Malankara Orthodox Syrian Church, which I feel has not been charitable with the Jacobites, although both are in communion with the Copts and Armenians; hopefully it will be temporary, like the Soviet-era schism between the Armenian Catholicos of Holy Etchmiadzin, in Soviet-occupied Armenia, and his counterpart in free Lebanon, the Catholicos of the Great House of Cilicia; the two organized rival hierarchies in the US which still exist, but are no longer rivals, the animosity subsiding, and of course Constantinople and Jerusalem are under Patriarchs and are autocephalous Armenian churches, just as the Catholicoi are autocephalous, so there are actually nine autocephalous Oriental Orthodox churches, not counting the Malankara Independent Syriac Church, which while Orthodox in liturgy and praxis, is only in communion with the Protestant Mar Thoma Syrian Church, which is part of the Anglican Communion.