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High Maintenance?
- Thread starter JohnDB
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AceHero
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I've never thought of someone being high maintenance as related to gold digging. I'd love to date a high maintenance girl, but not because I want a wad of money. To me, a high maintenance woman is one who has expensive tastes: she likes to dress well, essentially. I want a beautiful woman who knows how to take care of herself. I really don't care about her net worth.
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you confused me there with that last line, John. I actually thought you were venting about your girlfriend 
anydoodle, women don't like being called high maintenance. period. there's a lot of negative association with the phrase. If you know a woman whose high maintenance ways are affecting you personally to the point that you feel like you need to say something, stay away from that phrase because she will shut down and get defensive. Instead, say things like, "I noticed you're spending an awful lot of my money on things I cannot really afford, we need to address that."
or if its clinginess you're talking about, then address that issue. Find out why she's so desperate for your attention, chances are there's a deep-seated problem there thats never actually been addressed and that person might need someone who cares about them to bring it up in a loving way.
anydoodle, women don't like being called high maintenance. period. there's a lot of negative association with the phrase. If you know a woman whose high maintenance ways are affecting you personally to the point that you feel like you need to say something, stay away from that phrase because she will shut down and get defensive. Instead, say things like, "I noticed you're spending an awful lot of my money on things I cannot really afford, we need to address that."
or if its clinginess you're talking about, then address that issue. Find out why she's so desperate for your attention, chances are there's a deep-seated problem there thats never actually been addressed and that person might need someone who cares about them to bring it up in a loving way.
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