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Have you asked God yourself and waited for his answer to you?

Yes. And when I tell people I get told "YOU WEREN'T LISTENING TO GOD" No one cares about what God says. It takes too much spiritual personal repentance and patience to actually listen to God so everyone reads the Bible and takes that without ANY prayer or meditation on it. Many people have the Bible and think that constitutes a relationship with God.
 
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Why is homosexuality a sin? I don't get it.

Oh it's in the Bible.

Maybe, maybe not. Some of the verses used to justify condemnation of homosexuality actually condemn temple prostitution, while others may have been translated as homosexuality but scholars disagree over the accuracy of the translations. (Maybe churches should "teach the controversy," huh?)

No, all the failures aside, why would God do this? There are no sins that exist that don't have potential consequence (also, AIDs is not a homosexual consequence any more than it's a heterosexual or African consequence. It's a disease that's no more "divine" than measles was in the early 19th century.) Homosexuality is the only exception. So why. WHY would God do this? Oh it's because He's God and He can do whatever He wants? Well that makes Him sound like a real jerk and my God isn't a jerk. Sin is sin because it harms us, the world around us, the people around us, there is a chance. There's a chance we can do it walking down the street (these is something I expect from atheists). Fair enough. But when you commit a sin the chance of it happening just shoots up. And this goes for physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual being.
Good questions.

I would recommend you read through Fred Clark's six-part "Gay-Hatin' Gospel" series at his blog Slacktivist for a good list of potential reasons some Christians condemn homosexuality -- and it's pretty light on Bible verses, too. Hope you like it!
 
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Why is homosexuality a sin? I don't get it.

Oh it's in the Bible. That's great. It doesn't mean anything because it doesn't answer the question. What purpose would God have for making it a sin? And "because God made man and woman" is not an answer, because they you also have to admit that Paul, Jesus and every other single person in the Bible, was also sinning, and deny that celibacy is in fact a spiritual gift. Because those don't involve two people either. Don't tell me that the sex is unnatural because the Bible doesn't say that heterosexuals can't do it so there's not proof that homosexuals can't do it without giving a proper reason. Don't tell me that it's because they can't reproduce because neither can some people with physical problems and neither can people who don't WANT children, but they certainly aren't doing anything wrong.

No, all the failures aside, why would God do this? There are no sins that exist that don't have potential consequence (also, AIDs is not a homosexual consequence any more than it's a heterosexual or African consequence. It's a disease that's no more "divine" than measles was in the early 19th century.) Homosexuality is the only exception. So why. WHY would God do this? Oh it's because He's God and He can do whatever He wants? Well that makes Him sound like a real jerk and my God isn't a jerk. Sin is sin because it harms us, the world around us, the people around us, there is a chance. There's a chance we can do it walking down the street (these is something I expect from atheists). Fair enough. But when you commit a sin the chance of it happening just shoots up. And this goes for physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual being.

Now, tell me why. IF I GET ANY BIBLE VERSES ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY I'LL...well I'll be angry. USE YOUR BRAIN AND COME UP WITH A CRITICAL THINKING ANSWER.




Jesus didn't sin, where did you get that from? If Jesus sinned he wouldn't be the Son of God not be able to provide salvation. Only the innocent can redeem the sinner.. A sinner cannot redeem a sinner. Where do you get your theology from??

Secondly Paul and many of the apostles advocated celibacy, in fact many said it was "better not to marry" in order to be celibate..

Why is homosexuality a sin? The same way murder and adultery is a sin. It is unnatural and contrary to God's nature and plan. Sex was created for procreation, not pleasure. Men cannot procreate, thus sex between 2 men is against God's nature and his plan. The colon is designed to remove waste from the body, not be used as a sexual tool. Just the same way the mouth is used to talk and to eat..Homosexuality is contrary to natural law, just as a person knows in his heart to not have sex with animals, the male knows in his heart not to engage in same sex relations.The same reasoning applies to the case of homosexual behavior. The natural sex partner for a man is a woman, and the natural sex partner for a woman is a man. Thus, people have the corresponding intuition concerning homosexuality that they do about bestiality—that it is wrong because it is unnatural.

Natural law reasoning is the basis for almost all standard moral intuitions. For example, it is the dignity and value that each human being naturally possesses that makes the needless destruction of human life or infliction of physical and emotional pain immoral. This gives rise to a host of specific moral principles, such as the unacceptability of murder, kidnapping, mutilation, physical and emotional abuse, and so forth.


Simply put homosexuality is a grave moral matter that must be dealt with before it ruins the person. But because something was not chosen does not mean it was inborn. Some desires are acquired or strengthened by habituation and conditioning instead of by conscious choice. For example, no one chooses to be an alcoholic, but one can become habituated to alcohol. Just as one can acquire alcoholic desires (by repeatedly becoming intoxicated) without consciously choosing them, so one may acquire homosexual desires (by engaging in homosexual fantasies or behavior) without consciously choosing them.

Since sexual desire is subject to a high degree of cognitive conditioning in humans (there is no biological reason why we find certain scents, forms of dress, or forms of underwear sexually stimulating), it would be most unusual if homosexual desires were not subject to a similar degree of cognitive conditioning.

Even if there is a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality (and studies on this point are inconclusive), the behavior remains unnatural because homosexuality is still not part of the natural design of humanity. It does not make homosexual behavior acceptable; other behaviors are not rendered acceptable simply because there may be a genetic predisposition toward them.

For example, scientific studies suggest some people are born with a hereditary disposition to alcoholism, but no one would argue someone ought to fulfill these inborn urges by becoming an alcoholic. Alcoholism is not an acceptable "lifestyle" any more than homosexuality is.


Basing itself on sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity, tradition has always declared that homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered. They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.


homosexuals are best called to chasity. And It can be done. couragerc is a wonderful program that has helped many people

I would recommend you read through Fred Clark's six-part "Gay-Hatin' Gospel" series at his blog Slacktivist for a good list of potential reasons some Christians condemn homosexuality -- and it's pretty light on Bible verses, too. Hope you like it!

Mankei, i really think you should give it up. Your denial of sin being sin.

Those opposed to homosexual behavior are often charged with homoph**ia that they hold the position they do because they are "afraid" of homosexuals. Sometimes the charge is even made that these same people are perhaps homosexuals themselves and are overcompensating to hide this fact, even from themselves, by condemning other homosexuals.

Both of these arguments attempt to stop rational discussion of an issue by shifting the focus to one of the participants. In doing so, they dismiss another person’s arguments based on some real or supposed attribute of the person. In this case, the supposed attribute is a fear of homosexuals.

Like similar attempts to avoid rational discussion of an issue, the homophobia argument completely misses the point. Even if a person were afraid of homosexuals, that would not diminish his arguments against their behavior. The fact that a person is afraid of handguns would not nullify arguments against handguns, nor would the fact that a person might be afraid of handgun control diminish arguments against handgun control.

Furthermore, the homophobia charge rings false. The vast majority of those who oppose homosexual behavior are in no way "afraid" of homosexuals. A disagreement is not the same as a fear. One can disagree with something without fearing it, and the attempt to shut down rational discussion by crying "homophobe!" falls flat. It is an attempt to divert attention from the arguments against one’s position by focusing attention on the one who made the arguments, while trying to claim the moral high ground against him.


Yes. And when I tell people I get told "YOU WEREN'T LISTENING TO GOD" No one cares about what God says. It takes too much spiritual personal repentance and patience to actually listen to God so everyone reads the Bible and takes that without ANY prayer or meditation on it. Many people have the Bible and think that constitutes a relationship with God.

I really suggest you tone down the self righteouness. There are many people who pray and do much more than just read the bible..It is immature to claim that "No one cares about what God says" when there are plenty of people who do..
 
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Sex was created for procreation, not pleasure.

Hey everyone else, stop for a minute and think what it would be like to go through life actually believing this comment.

I might be going to hell when I die Rents, but you are already there.
 
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Hey everyone else, stop for a minute and think what it would be like to go through life actually believing this comment.

I might be going to hell when I die Rents, but you are already there.


Actually I was in hell when I was living in promiscuity before I was married when I was younger. I used to think the same way, but there comes in life when you realize life is just more than sex and indulgence..I understand this is hard when hormones are raging, but things start to level out when you get past college and meet a woman you actually truely love. What happens when you get older and your sex drive starts to dive? What meaning will your life have during those times?


I can tell you, every act of fornication I have commited only had a temporary euphoria. But after its over, you know in your soul that it isn't good. Are you gonna chase after that high your whole life? The same way a cocaine addict forfeits 90% of his time in this world as misery for only 10% of complete euphoria in return? Is it really worth it?? Is one act of pleasure worth risking dying a horrible death from AIDS?
 
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It is unnatural and contrary to God's nature and plan. Sex was created for procreation, not pleasure. - Renton 405

If sex was created for procreation, not pleasure, then why is it so snsual and pleasurable?

When you have sex, do you just lie there with a blank expression on your face and not make a sound? Do you touch your lover or put a sheet between you two?

Why did God give Humans such sensitive and stimulating points in and around our genitals??

(there is no biological reason why we find certain scents, forms of dress, or forms of underwear sexually stimulating) - Renton405

Where did you get this information? Did you finish High School at all?

Even if there is a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality (and studies on this point are inconclusive), the behavior remains unnatural because homosexuality is still not part of the natural design of humanity. It does not make homosexual behavior acceptable; other behaviors are not rendered acceptable simply because there may be a genetic predisposition toward them. - Renton405

Check out this article: http://discovermagazine.com/2004/jan/genetics

It talks about the decrease of the Y chromosome. Perhaps due to the constant decline of the Y, there is an increase of homosexuality because more of the XX chromosomes are becoming dominant. Or, there is more Estrogen in Humans than Testosterone.
Also, scientists have performed studies on animals that have been flooded with Estrogen while pregnant. This has resulted in homosexual behaviour in infants.

In society, people have ingested a lot of PCBs (synthetic chemicals) which can offset the balance of Estrogen and Testosterone in Human Gestation, giving rise to possible aggresive behaviour and/ or homosexuality.

And saying that homosexuality is not part of the natural design of humanity. Well, if you talk from a scientific POV, smoking is not part of the natural design of humanity - it is widely proven to corrode lungs and lead to dibilitating diseases, but people (including Christians) do it still. If you talk from a social POV, you are merely being subjective.
 
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I can tell you, every act of fornication I have commited only had a temporary euphoria. But after its over, you know in your soul that it isn't good. Are you gonna chase after that high your whole life? The same way a cocaine addict forfeits 90% of his time in this world as misery for only 10% of complete euphoria in return? Is it really worth it??

I sympathise.

However, I can tell you quite honestly that the majority of my 'acts of fornication' have enriched my life. I am in a serious relationship at the moment; sex strengthens the bond between my boyfriend and I and draws us closer. However, the occasional instances of semi-casual sex that I have engaged in have also left me feeling pretty fantastic, thanks very much, and not just in a physical sense. (Sometimes not in a physical sense at all.) I enjoy connections with people; I enjoy making people feel good; I enjoy expressing my affection physically.

Different kinds of sex lives work for different people at different stages in their lives. Some people have a period in their lives where they want to do all sorts of things with all sorts of people. It does not mean that they will be ruined forever. I have a friend who's been doing just that for many years and doesn't regret a thing, but now he's ready to settle down and commit to his lovely fiancée.

I would like to think I will settle down one day, but that doesn't mean that I think I will regret having had several different experiences as a young person. Not everyone is the same, Renton. I'm sorry that you feel your experiences were negative; I can only express my condolences. But it is possible to have pre-marital sex and be genuinely happy.

Anyway, sorry, that was way off-topic. The point, of course, is that sex is often fun, fulfilling and illuminating, and I don't care what anyone thinks the 'natural order' is.
 
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I remember being with a lovely lady a couple of years ago at a bush doof. We were both on acid. We didn't even shag, but just kissed, touched and carressed each other for hours (at least if felt like hours). It was the most exhilerating experience I've had in a while...quite possibly because of the addition of psychedelics into the equation:D
 
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It has nothing to do with procreation, or with the unnaturalness of the sex act.

Homosexuality is a sin because it perverts God's purpose for marriage.

God's purpose for marriage is to be a type of the relationship that Christ has with the church.

God has designated the man in the relationship to represent Christ, and the woman to represent the church.

Where there are two men or two women, it is essentially mocking God's plan for marriage and, by extension, Christ's relationship with the church.
 
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God's purpose for marriage? What is the purpose for marriage besides to be with the same person for the rest of your life? If you genuinely love someone, why do you have to symbolise it with a ceremony? Shouldn't God know of this undying love between two people, without having to have a little sideshow in honour of said love?

So why don't homosexuals just bypass the whole marriage scene? Cos then they wouldn't mock God's plan for marriage.
 
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God's purpose for marriage? What is the purpose for marriage besides to be with the same person for the rest of your life?

I just told you.

So why don't homosexuals just bypass the whole marriage scene? Cos then they wouldn't mock God's plan for marriage.

I agree. If they don't get married and don't have sex, then they wouldn't be mocking God's plan for marriage.
 
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I agree. If they don't get married and don't have sex, then they wouldn't be mocking God's plan for marriage.

What about kissing? Can they do that? I'm not sure what's wrong with the sex, either, actually.

The OP was about *why* God apparently says what he does. So why is that God's plan for marriage and not something else?
 
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personally, I would say prohibiting homosexuals from having sex is against humanity's plan for love and companionship.

I have gay friends, and if anything, they are nicer, more understanding, and great people to hang around with. The fact that they enjoy the intimate company of their own sex is nothing bad. Because that is love for a fellow human. Something, i presume to be correct, that Jesus was known for? Loving everybody?
 
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I've always figured that Leviticus is talking about either married men not sleeping with other men, or married men not sleeping with temple prostitutes (or at least not doing in in their marriage bed).

All other mentions of what could be homosexuality are probably not. The sin of Sodom and Gomorrah was inhospitality. Paul is talking about a group of anomical (lawless) Christians who believe (as Paul told them) that because Jesus made them free, they no longer have to obey any laws - and so are doing taboo sexual things like incest. Since the Romans didn't consider homosexuality taboo (and since Paul's churches were mostly Gentile) I find it unlikely that homosexuality was one of those "immoral sexual" things that Paul didn't want his church members to be doing (unlike sleeping with their mothers), simply because it wasn't taboo enough for them to be doing.

Also, I don't think that Jesus would condemn people for something that seems to be at least partially genetic.
 
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Why is homosexuality a sin? The same way murder and adultery is a sin.

Funny. I thought they were wrong because they cause harm to others.

It is unnatural and contrary to God's nature and plan.

Define unnatural. If you mean occurs in nature, then you're wrong. It occurs in animals.

The second half of the statement would require:

1) your god to be real

2) his nature and plan to be obvious

Sex was created for procreation, not pleasure.

Clearly false. Please explain why women are fertile only 3-5 days per cycle but sex is enjoyable at ANY time.

Men cannot procreate, thus sex between 2 men is against God's nature and his plan.

Using the same premise (i.e., inability to procreate)...

Sex between elderly men and women is against God's nature and plan as well.

Sex between infertile couples...

You get my point. Yours, however, is full of phail.

The colon is designed to remove waste from the body, not be used as a sexual tool. Just the same way the mouth is used to talk and to eat..Homosexuality is contrary to natural law...

The penis is "designed" to remove waste from the body as well, but it's also a sexual tool.

Assuming the same designer for both that implies lack of caring about secondary uses.

Oh...and if it violated natural law, it wouldn't be physically possible. Yet, it is possible.

Again...you are full of phail.

...just as a person knows in his heart to not have sex with animals, the male knows in his heart not to engage in same sex relations.The same reasoning applies to the case of homosexual behavior. The natural sex partner for a man is a woman, and the natural sex partner for a woman is a man. Thus, people have the corresponding intuition concerning homosexuality that they do about bestiality—that it is wrong because it is unnatural.

The phail keeps on coming. Gay and lesbians feel same sex relations are the natural romantic relationship for them.

You keep saying "unnatural." To quote a famous swordsman, you keep using that word...I don't think it means what you think it means.

Natural law reasoning is the basis for almost all standard moral intuitions. For example, it is the dignity and value that each human being naturally possesses that makes the needless destruction of human life or infliction of physical and emotional pain immoral. This gives rise to a host of specific moral principles, such as the unacceptability of murder, kidnapping, mutilation, physical and emotional abuse, and so forth.

You clearly don't understand:

1) what natural law is...the principles by which reality functions

2) moral development (in the academic sense)...morality are the rules of behavior dictated by a higher power (e.g., a god, society as a whole).

Oh...and as a fun fact..."unacceptability of murder, kidnapping, mutilation, physical and emotional abuse" being "immoral" never stopped the Christian churches from doing them whenever they acheived political power (c.f., the Inquisition).

Simply put homosexuality is a grave moral matter that must be dealt with before it ruins the person. But because something was not chosen does not mean it was inborn.

Hmm...no.

Some desires are acquired or strengthened by habituation and conditioning instead of by conscious choice.

Funny how many gays and lesbians know they are different from age at which sexuality is the furthest thing from their minds. Cantata...your input here would be useful.

For example, no one chooses to be an alcoholic, but one can become habituated to alcohol. Just as one can acquire alcoholic desires (by repeatedly becoming intoxicated) without consciously choosing them, so one may acquire homosexual desires (by engaging in homosexual fantasies or behavior) without consciously choosing them.

As a point of fact, alcoholism (and other addictions) may have some genetic or congenital components that are necessary conditions. Granted this requires exposure to alcohol, but as I note above gays and lesbians may feel they are different from others prior to exposure and awareness of sexuality.

Since sexual desire is subject to a high degree of cognitive conditioning in humans (there is no biological reason why we find certain scents, forms of dress, or forms of underwear sexually stimulating), it would be most unusual if homosexual desires were not subject to a similar degree of cognitive conditioning.

Apples and oranges, kiddo.

Let's test this idea for reasonableness.

To what extent is the concept of sex with any woman whatsoever affected by these things?

The answer is that it isn't. Oh sure, specifics can be influenced, but at a basic level, desire for intercourse with women in general is not.

It's the same with gays and lesbians.

Even if there is a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality (and studies on this point are inconclusive),

Monozygotic and fraternal twin studies conclusively show rates of same sex attraction that are statistically higher than what you would expect if there is no genetic component.

Again...you phail in a magnificent manner.

the behavior remains unnatural because homosexuality is still not part of the natural design of humanity. It does not make homosexual behavior acceptable; other behaviors are not rendered acceptable simply because there may be a genetic predisposition toward them.

For example, scientific studies suggest some people are born with a hereditary disposition to alcoholism, but no one would argue someone ought to fulfill these inborn urges by becoming an alcoholic. Alcoholism is not an acceptable "lifestyle" any more than homosexuality is.

Alcoholism causes direct harm to the self and others. Homosexuality does not. Again...you encounter the apples and oranges fallacy.

Your phail is most delicious.

Basing itself on sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity, tradition has always declared that homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered. They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.

Your "sacred scripture" also doesn't actually say that. The original text refers to other behaviors which other threads cover nicely. I've already dealt with the bogus "gift of life" canard.

PHAIL!

homosexuals are best called to chasity. And It can be done. couragerc is a wonderful program that has helped many people

Oh yeah? What's it's recidivism rate?

Mankei, i really think you should give it up. Your denial of sin being sin.

Renton, you should give it up...you denial of phail being phail.

Those opposed to homosexual behavior are often charged with homoph**ia that they hold the position they do because they are "afraid" of homosexuals. Sometimes the charge is even made that these same people are perhaps homosexuals themselves and are overcompensating to hide this fact, even from themselves, by condemning other homosexuals.

Two words: Ted Haggard.

Oh...and those opposed are also often thought of as &@+$#!+ crazy right wingers too.

Like similar attempts to avoid rational discussion of an issue, the homophobia argument completely misses the point. Even if a person were afraid of homosexuals

Actually...the fear is of the behavior (and that they desire themselves).

I really suggest you tone down the self righteouness. There are many people who pray and do much more than just read the bible..It is immature to claim that "No one cares about what God says" when there are plenty of people who do..

I would suggest using arguments that are not so full of phail.
 
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Jesus didn't sin, where did you get that from? If Jesus sinned he wouldn't be the Son of God not be able to provide salvation. Only the innocent can redeem the sinner.. A sinner cannot redeem a sinner. Where do you get your theology from??

Secondly Paul and many of the apostles advocated celibacy, in fact many said it was "better not to marry" in order to be celibate..

Why is homosexuality a sin? The same way murder and adultery is a sin. It is unnatural and contrary to God's nature and plan. Sex was created for procreation, not pleasure. Men cannot procreate, thus sex between 2 men is against God's nature and his plan. The colon is designed to remove waste from the body, not be used as a sexual tool. Just the same way the mouth is used to talk and to eat..Homosexuality is contrary to natural law, just as a person knows in his heart to not have sex with animals, the male knows in his heart not to engage in same sex relations.The same reasoning applies to the case of homosexual behavior. The natural sex partner for a man is a woman, and the natural sex partner for a woman is a man. Thus, people have the corresponding intuition concerning homosexuality that they do about bestiality—that it is wrong because it is unnatural.

Natural law reasoning is the basis for almost all standard moral intuitions. For example, it is the dignity and value that each human being naturally possesses that makes the needless destruction of human life or infliction of physical and emotional pain immoral. This gives rise to a host of specific moral principles, such as the unacceptability of murder, kidnapping, mutilation, physical and emotional abuse, and so forth.


Simply put homosexuality is a grave moral matter that must be dealt with before it ruins the person. But because something was not chosen does not mean it was inborn. Some desires are acquired or strengthened by habituation and conditioning instead of by conscious choice. For example, no one chooses to be an alcoholic, but one can become habituated to alcohol. Just as one can acquire alcoholic desires (by repeatedly becoming intoxicated) without consciously choosing them, so one may acquire homosexual desires (by engaging in homosexual fantasies or behavior) without consciously choosing them.

Since sexual desire is subject to a high degree of cognitive conditioning in humans (there is no biological reason why we find certain scents, forms of dress, or forms of underwear sexually stimulating), it would be most unusual if homosexual desires were not subject to a similar degree of cognitive conditioning.

Even if there is a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality (and studies on this point are inconclusive), the behavior remains unnatural because homosexuality is still not part of the natural design of humanity. It does not make homosexual behavior acceptable; other behaviors are not rendered acceptable simply because there may be a genetic predisposition toward them.

For example, scientific studies suggest some people are born with a hereditary disposition to alcoholism, but no one would argue someone ought to fulfill these inborn urges by becoming an alcoholic. Alcoholism is not an acceptable "lifestyle" any more than homosexuality is.


Basing itself on sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity, tradition has always declared that homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered. They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.


homosexuals are best called to chasity. And It can be done. couragerc is a wonderful program that has helped many people



Mankei, i really think you should give it up. Your denial of sin being sin.

Those opposed to homosexual behavior are often charged with homoph**ia that they hold the position they do because they are "afraid" of homosexuals. Sometimes the charge is even made that these same people are perhaps homosexuals themselves and are overcompensating to hide this fact, even from themselves, by condemning other homosexuals.

Both of these arguments attempt to stop rational discussion of an issue by shifting the focus to one of the participants. In doing so, they dismiss another person’s arguments based on some real or supposed attribute of the person. In this case, the supposed attribute is a fear of homosexuals.

Like similar attempts to avoid rational discussion of an issue, the homophobia argument completely misses the point. Even if a person were afraid of homosexuals, that would not diminish his arguments against their behavior. The fact that a person is afraid of handguns would not nullify arguments against handguns, nor would the fact that a person might be afraid of handgun control diminish arguments against handgun control.

Furthermore, the homophobia charge rings false. The vast majority of those who oppose homosexual behavior are in no way "afraid" of homosexuals. A disagreement is not the same as a fear. One can disagree with something without fearing it, and the attempt to shut down rational discussion by crying "homophobe!" falls flat. It is an attempt to divert attention from the arguments against one’s position by focusing attention on the one who made the arguments, while trying to claim the moral high ground against him.




I really suggest you tone down the self righteouness. There are many people who pray and do much more than just read the bible..It is immature to claim that "No one cares about what God says" when there are plenty of people who do..

You just said EVERYTHING I told you not to and clearly twisted my words. I think you need to go take a "How to Argue in a Debate" session because I don't think you get the clear concepts. Reread it. Get over all your previous arguments because they won't work here. And try again. But just to summarize: just because you're "sexually perfect" doesn't mean everyone else is (that's because it's an impossible venture duh). Homosexuals have similar fantasies (with the exception of straights have same-sex fantasies, in those cases it would be swapped out for different sex but moving on), they love their partner, or don't love, the same way heterosexuals do. If one got a sex change and walked up to you on the street, even started talking to you, and got to know you, you would NEVER KNOW they're technically a homosexual couple. Heck, forget the sex change. If they were just two girls walking down the street holding hands you wouldn't know the difference. Because there is none, except for how they have sex. Which, again, ISN'T directly preached against in the Bible. Anything referring to sex not referring to a particular group is very vague.

Also, I'm self-righteous? Look who's talking.:wave:
 
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