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caireann said:
Everyone has already said what I think, but I'll add this...

Have you ever thought about not dating? If you like someone, you can still be with them, hang out with them, get to know them and have a lot of fun, without dating them.

Would you do something? Just to humour me? See if you can get a copy of Josh McDowell's I Kissed Dating Goodbye, and just read it. You don't have to agree with it, or even follow it. Just read it. It's a very good book and gives you a different outlook on dating and relationships. Hugs girl, I know it's not easy.

Caireann.

two people have recommended this book so i think i will check it out ;) and thanks i agree with what u said...im just gonna hang around with him as friends....

thank u everybody. its really made me feel much better now and i will nott be going behind my parents back. as someone said earlier...can something good come out of something bad?...i dont think so :)
 
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xXxMinniExXx said:
thanks so much every1. it obviously wasnt the answer i wanted to here, everybody has advised me not to go out with him, but everything u guys have said has made me think i should trust my parents and not disobey them.

but am i right in thinking that maybe God has sent me someone finally, because no-one has ever really been this serious about liking me, and that i should give it a go?

Would GOD send you someone and want you to LIE to your parents ? When he says in his word that lying is a sin and that liars will not enter heaven? Do not let your desire to talk and go out to this boy make you try to justify it , God will NOT go agaisnt his word, or else his word is a lie , and we know it isnt.
 
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