I don't believe in "soulmates" or "helpmates", but I still believe it's possible that God has a helpmeet for me to serve Him with me...possible, but not probable, not holding my breath. I'm sure I could find a wonderful godly filipina who would be happy to stay with me untill death parts us if the Lord doesn't come back first, but time is so short and I'm content to serve the Lord as a single saint. It's nice not having to be concerned about pleasing anybody other than God.