Hi everyone I just need an advice because I am struggling with my husband. We are living in my parents house because we don't have house yet and we are not yet finish paying our house.
My Parents are so kind to my husband. But my husband are always offended with my parents in every lillte thing. And whenever my husband say it to me with harsh words I feel hurt he told me that my mom is like this like that.. everything in this house is immature he told me that soon my parents are going to die and it makes me angry but I'm still call I just let him say what he wants because I know he is accountable to God... My parents always wash his clothes cook him food.. we don't help my parents pay the electric bill even buy a food..he dot even help us cleaning the hoise. He don't even wash his plate after eating.. so KY mom always wash his plate but then I don't know why my husband is like that I don't understand.. when I told him not to say a bad words to my parents he is telling me that I'm on my parents side. He said "I'm your husband. I am your authority and you need to submit" he wants me to be on his side even if he is wrong.. it hurts me because those are not other people.. those are my parents and I love them.. I have 4 months old baby and I don't like him to be like his father I don't know what to do.. I ask my mom to be kind to him inspire of his attitude and they did but still my husband always offendes.. I don't know what to do my husband told me that if ever we payed our house he don't want my parents to go there for visit.. it kills me up inside.. I can't tell him what I feel because he will fightng me and say something harsh words... I pray and kneel to God and ask Him for wisdom on how to deal with my husabnds attitude or how to tell him that don't speak bad words to my parents because he will fightng with me.. I'm still on postpartum depression and Everytime he acts like that I'm shaking and always crying.. I'm so scared of him whenverw he is angry because he always say that he will leave me.. because I'm not on his side. Please tell me what to do. And pray for me
My Parents are so kind to my husband. But my husband are always offended with my parents in every lillte thing. And whenever my husband say it to me with harsh words I feel hurt he told me that my mom is like this like that.. everything in this house is immature he told me that soon my parents are going to die and it makes me angry but I'm still call I just let him say what he wants because I know he is accountable to God... My parents always wash his clothes cook him food.. we don't help my parents pay the electric bill even buy a food..he dot even help us cleaning the hoise. He don't even wash his plate after eating.. so KY mom always wash his plate but then I don't know why my husband is like that I don't understand.. when I told him not to say a bad words to my parents he is telling me that I'm on my parents side. He said "I'm your husband. I am your authority and you need to submit" he wants me to be on his side even if he is wrong.. it hurts me because those are not other people.. those are my parents and I love them.. I have 4 months old baby and I don't like him to be like his father I don't know what to do.. I ask my mom to be kind to him inspire of his attitude and they did but still my husband always offendes.. I don't know what to do my husband told me that if ever we payed our house he don't want my parents to go there for visit.. it kills me up inside.. I can't tell him what I feel because he will fightng me and say something harsh words... I pray and kneel to God and ask Him for wisdom on how to deal with my husabnds attitude or how to tell him that don't speak bad words to my parents because he will fightng with me.. I'm still on postpartum depression and Everytime he acts like that I'm shaking and always crying.. I'm so scared of him whenverw he is angry because he always say that he will leave me.. because I'm not on his side. Please tell me what to do. And pray for me