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My boyfriends daughter has been molested by her brother. She no longer lives in that household, but can barely go visit her mother b/c of the situation. Recently both children were together and within literally less than 5 minutes of an adult leaving the room he was trying to get her to go into the closet with him. The major problem is that my boyfriend/her father is having a hard time dealing with it. He freaks out and corrects her and I can tell by her reaction that he makes her feel like she is the one doing something wrong or that she is dirty. Does anyone know where or how he can get help with dealing with this. As far as, he needs counseling to know how to deal with this correctly and not doing even more damage to her.
 

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My boyfriends daughter has been molested by her brother. She no longer lives in that household, but can barely go visit her mother b/c of the situation. Recently both children were together and within literally less than 5 minutes of an adult leaving the room he was trying to get her to go into the closet with him. The major problem is that my boyfriend/her father is having a hard time dealing with it. He freaks out and corrects her and I can tell by her reaction that he makes her feel like she is the one doing something wrong or that she is dirty. Does anyone know where or how he can get help with dealing with this. As far as, he needs counseling to know how to deal with this correctly and not doing even more damage to her.
Call the police and/or a rape crisis centre. Now!
 
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