Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[mebby02]

I'm so sad right now l moved out with my boyfriend l lived in the same city as him l ended up hating it. Then he moves to mine my dad finds him a job we move in together since then he has been nothing but mean to me. We always fight l'm always crying l wish l never met him and moved in with him. I want to go home l want my life back. Seems like l have no friends since l moved in with him. No one likes my boyfriend always say he is crabby and they won't hang with me. l don't know what to do all he ever does is take my money. And when l'm in bed sleeping he checks my bank online. And says how much do you have in account l tell him h e says bull crap l just checked you have this much in your account. Then wants to go out to eat some where. Always uses me and l always end up having no money in my back before l dated him l used to have over a thousand. Now l have nothing and l don't know what to do some one please help me. l need someones advice please should l stay with him or break up with him? another thing l earn my money and work for my money and he takes all of it. Someone help me

 

[iceflower]

Dear mebby02,

Put your relationship with God first in your life.

Are you going to a bible-believing church at the moment?

God bless,

 

[CFFosterAngel51]

I'm so sad right now l moved out with my boyfriend l lived in the same city as him l ended up hating it. Then he moves to mine my dad finds him a job we move in together since then he has been nothing but mean to me. We always fight l'm always crying l wish l never met him and moved in with him. I want to go home l want my life back. Seems like l have no friends since l moved in with him. No one likes my boyfriend always say he is crabby and they won't hang with me. l don't know what to do all he ever does is take my money. And when l'm in bed sleeping he checks my bank online. And says how much do you have in account l tell him h e says bull crap l just checked you have this much in your account. Then wants to go out to eat some where. Always uses me and l always end up having no money in my back before l dated him l used to have over a thousand. Now l have nothing and l don't know what to do some one please help me. l need someones advice please should l stay with him or break up with him? another thing l earn my money and work for my money and he takes all of it. Someone help me

From what I'm hearing you're not married, so there isn't a commitment to him. It sounds like this is the second time you've tried to live with him and make things work.

If you stay with him, will you be happy? It's sad to leave a relationship that so much energy has been put into... but a short sadness or a lifetime of dispair when you're with the wrong person... which would be more difficult.

Also, I would suggest that you change your password on your bank account if it's your account only. Pray about your decision. God will help you to know what to do, and will give you the strength to do it.

In Him,
Kristen

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

LEAVE HIM. I've been in nearly the same situation as you. Leave as quickly and as safely as possible.

 

[GryffinSong]

I concur with maycontainnuts. Controlling your money is a form of abuse and control. Please, protect your account. He should not know your passwords, and should have no access. I would not stay with a man who abused me in this way. You are a prescious being and you deserve to be treated well. Can you safely leave him? Ask your dad for help?

Hugs. You deserve better!!!

 

[Bennuboy]

leave him. go back to your family and rebuild your old life if that is what you want, it probably wont be easy but like the others have said, 6 months from now you will be allot happier with your family and friends. 5 years from now you will still be miserable if you stay with him.

 

[rushingwind62]

Sometimes it is best to close doors. And that sounds like it is what you need to do. Kick him out, close the door, and lock it. In other words don't look back.