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[purehope0607]

Hi,
I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice. I suffer from chronic abdominal pain and fibromyalgia.Depression and anxiety are a key factor in this. I have gone through a lot of life changes in the last 4 months with separation, chronic pain program, sick child, now back together with hubby. When he was gone I did so much better health wise. I felt better and my anxiety didn't play too big a role as it is now that he's home. Don't get me wrong I want him home and I'm happy but I find myself so anxious to the point where I can feel my pulse at nightime. I want to talk to him but I'm afraid he will get upset. I have found my pain level increasing and my performance decreasing. Any advice as to how to approach him and explain to him how important for my health it is to keep my levels down.

 

[goldenviolet]

Hi,
I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice. I suffer from chronic abdominal pain and fibromyalgia.Depression and anxiety are a key factor in this. I have gone through a lot of life changes in the last 4 months with separation, chronic pain program, sick child, now back together with hubby. When he was gone I did so much better health wise. I felt better and my anxiety didn't play too big a role as it is now that he's home. Don't get me wrong I want him home and I'm happy but I find myself so anxious to the point where I can feel my pulse at nightime. I want to talk to him but I'm afraid he will get upset. I have found my pain level increasing and my performance decreasing. Any advice as to how to approach him and explain to him how important for my health it is to keep my levels down.

is he a christian man? is he abuisive? does he listen? sweetheart you have my prayers and blessings.

i think you should see your churches marriage counselor.

 

[purehope0607]

He is a christian. I've tried talking to him about counseling but he just seems to blow it off.

 

[goldenviolet]

but you can get counselling and have support and prayer, plus someone up close to talk to.

 

[Anti Existance]

For you counts ' Dont make your heart a murderhole ' Your a bad wife if you don't communicate with your husband. Good couples complain to eachother about what bothers them. Since fibromyalgia is arthritis related you might want to try glucosamine. Its basically for the joints, but still id like you to try it since its a harmless vitamine supplement.

 

[mikeforjesus]

do you know what causes you to feel anxious?

 

[purehope0607]

I'm not sure what causes me to feel anxious. I just have attacks whenever.