Help?!

[Lena75]

I know of a girl who is dating a guy who is married and has 3 kids. Yeah. I know, pathetic. Well, this guys wife is pregnant with her new boyfriend's kid. This girl, has never been married before and she's all cloud 9 with him. They see each other every weekend. And at work. Thing is they both claim to be Christians and they both say that they are doing "nothing wrong"! Now, I happen to know this guy and what I know is the perverted side of him. He's a looker. I hate that. Apparently, with a thing coming up on Saturday and he's gonna be there. Any suggestions as to what I should do? This couple is driving me nuts by putting on their "holier than thou" act!

 

[Mayzoo]

As hard as it may be, until they are ready to face the biblical reality of what they are doing, I would just abstain from any deep conversation. I would limit it to polite chit chat, and excuse yourself when possible, or when they wish to dwell on their relationship.


Ministry to them is probably just going to cause friction, until they are ready to really listen. Be there as a support person for your friend if the relationship fails. All of us are sinners and make mistakes, so don't shun her when she needs you most.

 

[cazza]

WoW!!

All Christians need to hold each other accountable! Do any Church leaders know of this? They need to know and council this pair.