Help....prayer needeD urgently

[shaaz_99]

Ok......Help!!!!!!!!
Hubby has left!!!
I am not joking.....
Things have been bad between us for a while, y'know bad atmosphere in the house.He hardly ever shows me any interest, and i am moody....bcos of this fact.I have seen our realationship just slide away and tried talking about it and he won't listen.
Tonight he went out on the Raz (Again), and i got really fed up.I told him things could'nt be this way anymore and so he is staying at his frioends tonite.He says he will talk about it tomorrow, but i don't expect to hear from him....
To top it all off....i know i have let God down becoa it was me who suggested the Get away and sort your head out thing.......

really need prayer

 

[Racheal]

oh Shaaz this is terrible...
Father, i bring before you this situation. I pray that you hold this couple in your hands. Let her know that you love her and are in control of what is going on, i pray that her faith can remain strong in You Lord. In Your name i pray. Amen.

 

[Southern Cross]

What's "Raz"? I'm American and I don't believe I've heard the word before.

 

[shaaz_99]

sorry it means to go out drinking.....
i just feel so like my world has fallen apart......

 

[Karen Fergusson]

Shazz, Have faith my girl, God is with you and He is waiting for you to just rely on him completely. God knows your heart and knows that you dont want it to end. Trust in Him. I know that it is easier to say than to do, but you need to trust Him, know that he is in control! this is a time also to call on your brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus to pray earnestly for you, your hubby and your marriage. Let Go of your bitterness towards your hubby for his actions, for truly you must love him as God does - Love him because he is your hubby. By all means hate the sin in his life and be angry at the devil. Love the Man, you dont have to love what he does!
Where there is God, there is always hope!

Thankyou Lord for Shaaz, she loves you and wants to do your will. Right now please encourage her by your word and your spirit! Comfort her and hold her tight, my Lord, Help her to shine with your glorious love, let there be forgiveness and reconsiliation in her and her hubby's relationship. Let your Grace and Your Mercy and Your peace enfold them, in Jesus almighty Name, Amen

 

[Southern Cross]

Is drinking a major problem for him? I don't want to jump to conclusions. If it is, there is nothing wrong with getting tough on him and threatening to ask him to leave at least temporarily. You're not giving up your marriage, but the man needs to shape up if his drinking has gone overboard. Yes, love him, but he also needs to be held accountable and face consequences for his actions. Let him know you love and care for him deeply and your marriage is not over, but his behavior is unacceptable.

Regardless of the drinking issue, please seek professional counseling from your church or a strong Christian counselor - there's a lot more to any situation than meets the eye. Counseling will also help you to understand if there are things to work on to improve your own attitude.

I know it's hard. I really do. My wife spent nights away from home for a time and your world really does feel like it's falling apart, but God will give you the strength to stand on your own two feet, take care of your family, and get through this. Be confident as much as possible, be brave, and trust that God will take care of you through this.

 

[Angieh]

LORD, I LIFT UP SHAAZ RIGHT NOW... I PRAY FOR HER SITUATION, THAT YOU WOULD ENCOURAGE HER AND GIVE HER STRENGTH RIGHT NOW.. I PRAY THAT HER HUSBAND'S HEART AND MIND WOULD BE OPEN TO YOU LORD... PLEASE WORK IN BOTH OF THESE HEARTS. THANK YOU FATHER... IN THE NAME OF JESUS..AMEN

Shaaz, You will be in my prayers and I'm sending you a hug ...Hang in there girl.... I know how hard it is...
Angie

 

[KleinerApfel]

God bless you and keep you Shaaz.

Susana

 

[Maharg]

Praying for you Shaaz.

God bless,

Maharg
x

 

[shaaz_99]

Update guys...................
Hubby has been having an affair. for 2 months.he has left the family hoome to live with his new girlfriend......they are both not saved.he says the reason he is uninteerested in our marriage is because i am a Christian and he does'nt want us to continue as a couple....

 

[Maharg]

Don't have any words right now

 

[KleinerApfel]

Shaaz,

that's awful for you.

As Maharg says, what can we say? Prayers for you to feel the love of god and His sense of direction from this point.

God bless you, Susana

 

[shaaz_99]

Thanks all!!!!!!!!
feel reallly hurt but at least he was honset enough to tell me that he had been drifting away form me and why.
Love him so much.....But it's not enough.God is Much more important.I just hope he saves him and his GF.