help me out what does this mean ?

[NeoTheOne]

So i met this girl 2 years ago at youth group shes 16 1/2 i am 17 , I slowly got to know her anyway 3 months ago she asked me to call her like 4 times one night and said she wanted to get to know me more and i called her one time after that to get directions to a youth meeting then she started asking me if i hang out with my guy friends other than at youth group i said ya some times.i talk to her couple times a week on msn about just life stuff and if she needs help she allways sas like *you are the first person who popped into my head when i thought of asking someone to help me out* so a couple months after that she started saying hi and asking me how my week was allot more than she used too and then she asked me if i get along with my mother.I stoped going to youth group for like 2 months because of some problems in my life my phone was not on because i lost my job and stuff so they could not contact me and when i came back after 2 months. she said never do that again she looked serious dont ever stop coming to youth untill you have to go to college or somthing i said ok

another time she asked me if i could help her out because she was bringing this new guy to youth and she wanted me to hang out with him so he would not feel wierd and she said she did not want him to think i like him, she has called me a stud muffin and stuff shes pretty outgoing and i am abit shy , shes told me one time you're really a great guy and i'm lucky to have you as a friend before too.

one problem theres this short kid whos 5-3 shorter than her and kinda chubby whos outgoing and he likes her and hes my friend and hes 15 and we have like a little battle going on with each other because she knows we both like her i am 5'9 thin and 1 year older so who do you think she would choose if she dated because i dont even think he has a chance unless she likes his outgoingness what do you think ? and do you think she likes me ?

 

[Evie1980]

You have to ask yourself how you think about her and if she does what do you want to happen? Also you have to ask yourself is a relationship worth your friendship? I have a quote 'boys may come and boys may go but best friends last forever'. I have been in many sticky situations in regards to friends and boyfriends and now I realised that my BF is worth more than a thousand dates because she is the person who will still be standing there when he is long gone. Also I think that it is abit unfair that you have made this into a personal competition (I am take this from the bit where you said "I don't think he has a chance"). My BF (in fact all my friends) are way better than me! They are beautiful and it is not only their exterior, and that's why when a guy notices me I am confused! My friends have such wonderful qualities that admire so much (I guess that is why they are my friends)... Sorry gone on a tangent again. But I guess the best way to answer this is ask her. I am sure in time she will tell you but for the sake of your friendship (which I am assuming that you do value highly or you wouldn't be asking quetions) I would try and get this sorted pretty quickly.

God bless, Evie

 

[JPPT1974]

Realize that the qualities you have are precious & priceless.
And that they can't ever be replaced.
Also being friends and valuing your friendship is more important if you ask me.

 

[Alejandro]

I have a quote 'boys may come and boys may go but best friends last forever'.

That's why it's dangerous being a good friend when you like someone!!

But the ladies are right. Women are wiser than men..

 

[fishstix]

So i met this girl 2 years ago at youth group shes 16 1/2 i am 17 , I slowly got to know her anyway 3 months ago she asked me to call her like 4 times one night and said she wanted to get to know me more and i called her one time after that to get directions to a youth meeting then she started asking me if i hang out with my guy friends other than at youth group i said ya some times.i talk to her couple times a week on msn about just life stuff and if she needs help she allways sas like *you are the first person who popped into my head when i thought of asking someone to help me out* so a couple months after that she started saying hi and asking me how my week was allot more than she used too and then she asked me if i get along with my mother.I stoped going to youth group for like 2 months because of some problems in my life my phone was not on because i lost my job and stuff so they could not contact me and when i came back after 2 months. she said never do that again she looked serious dont ever stop coming to youth untill you have to go to college or somthing i said ok

another time she asked me if i could help her out because she was bringing this new guy to youth and she wanted me to hang out with him so he would not feel wierd and she said she did not want him to think i like him, she has called me a stud muffin and stuff shes pretty outgoing and i am abit shy , shes told me one time you're really a great guy and i'm lucky to have you as a friend before too.

one problem theres this short kid whos 5-3 shorter than her and kinda chubby whos outgoing and he likes her and hes my friend and hes 15 and we have like a little battle going on with each other because she knows we both like her i am 5'9 thin and 1 year older so who do you think she would choose if she dated because i dont even think he has a chance unless she likes his outgoingness what do you think ? and do you think she likes me ?

It sounds like she may like you. The only way to know for sure though is to ask her.

As far as the other guy goes, why battle with him over her? She'll choose whoever she chooses, regardless of your battles, and it may not even be either of you. She may still be immature enough to choose based primarily on outward appearances (looks or outgoingness) or she may be mature enough to know that character is a lot more important.