Welcome to CF! There's something for everyone here. It's an amazing, complex place.
Something that helped me a LOT when I joined was to go to my Control Panel at the top of the page, and go to Edit Options. About three screens down you'll see some options to add titles and URLs for the "Custom Navbar". As you find forums on CF that you want to participate in, put their URL as one of your custom navbar URLs. That way, it will show up on the top of your screen each time you visit, and will act as a quick shortcut to the forums you visit the most.
I look forward to getting to know you as you post in the community!
thank you so much or the nice welcome .. I am very very new to all of this .. and want to thank the blessings and gifts .. but I have no idea how to use them yet.... but again.. thank you so much.