Hi gals! Well, sorry I was MIA, was sick last week and SUPER busy at work this week.
A little update, the hubby and I decided to work things out a second time. It's been about a week so far. He's a little more affectionate, and I don't push for any sort of spiritual anything, but he hasn't brought it up. I know these things can't be rushed and I am being as patient as I can.
We changed a few other things, I am letting him manage the finances and it seems to stress him out alot less, even though I managed them fine. At least he can see what is going on and feel in control of them. I think that helps.
I have been trying to be more... not obedient, but have a serving attitude. It's not easy to bite my tongue and do for him or agree, and there are alot of times I feel like a doormat still. Not easy, not seeing alot of changes or results, but do see a small attitude change.
Trying to remain positive, and keep praying and reading his word. I am just hoping that things keep getting better and don't fall back into the same old things.
Thanks ladies, your prayers and encouragement have really really helped, and the Lord has lifted my spirits this week quite a bit. Not necessarily feeling happier per se, more content at at peace letting him handle things.
*hugs* to you all!!