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Hello, I don't know.

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I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.
 

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Hello Friend, I am here for you and happy to talk. Welcome to CF :wave:
I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.
 
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Hello Friend, I am here for you and happy to talk. Welcome to CF :wave:
Brother, Welcome to CF

I feel a little bad to be heaping all the peoples worries on SouthernScotty but I assure you this man in true and does not mess with the word of Jesus Christ or The Lord, God in any way and he is a person who will genuinely seek to help you.

God Be With You
 
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feel a little bad to be heaping all the peoples worries on SouthernScotty but I assure you this man in true and does not mess with the word of Jesus Christ or The Lord, God in any way and he is a person who will genuinely seek to help you.
I do not mind at all, I will be happy to help :] Thank You Connor. I think you meant to say I don't beat around the bush. LoL I do certainly use the Word of God .:]
 
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I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.
Jesus is the light.

Matthew 11:28 Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
 
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I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.
Welcome to Christian Forums, LostAndInsecure. You need to understand something. The Lord created us, and he created a spiritual paradise for us. The paradise requires we love the Lord with all our hearts, minds, and souls, and love our neighbors as ourselves. (Matthew 22:34-40). It's yours for the taking.
 
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I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.

You're not here by accident, Jesus is calling you.
 
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I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.
It is wonderful that you have decided to look into it! I can tell that you have a mind keen on understanding and able to say that you have learned something new.

I noticed you have honed precisely on a core aspect of your disconnect: that your imagination of the doctrines possibly does not fully correlate to the genuine essence of the faith. In fact, when Jesus says in Revelation 2:7 "to the one who overcomes, I will give to eat of the tree of life", that is a large part of the struggle - to overcome long-held misunderstandings, because sometimes it can be tempting to stay the way we are.

But seeing you're interested in understanding things and seeking knowledge, I'd like to share with you this booklet about The Gospel that covers a range of central topics, showing what scriptures have to say in regards to them. If you take your time to think deeply upon how those scriptures are relevant to those topics, by the end of that you will have a much better idea of where to go from there.
 
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I do not mind at all, I will be happy to help :] Thank You Connor. I think you meant to say I don't beat around the bush. LoL I do certainly use the Word of God .:]
Lol, no I mean you leave it as it is, allot of people bend it to suit themselves, which is dangerous.
 
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Brother, Welcome to CF

I feel a little bad to be heaping all the peoples worries on SouthernScotty but I assure you this man in true and does not mess with the word of Jesus Christ or The Lord, God in any way and he is a person who will genuinely seek to help you.

God Be With You
Hello,
I am a bit lost in the maze of your website...I assume that this is directed at me (be gentle?)
 
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Hello,
I am a bit lost in the maze of your website...I assume that this is directed at me (be gentle?)
I don't even know if I will be able to find this message again. Tried posting a reply on a forum but it "disappeared".....probably doing something wrong.
 
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I don't even know if I will be able to find this message again. Tried posting a reply on a forum but it "disappeared".....probably doing something wrong.
I will message you :]
 
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I don't even know if I will be able to find this message again. Tried posting a reply on a forum but it "disappeared".....probably doing something wrong.
I would like to open a thread on a forum but will only do so if it is considered appropriate....require some advice.
 
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I don't even know if I will be able to find this message again. Tried posting a reply on a forum but it "disappeared".....probably doing something wrong.
Of course,

Yeah I meant that comment for you, I know Scotty so that that's why it seemed indirect, sorry.

When someone replys to your comment you will get a notification so don't worry about that.

A few days and you'll know it back to front.

God Be With You
 
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I don't even know if I will be able to find this message again. Tried posting a reply on a forum but it "disappeared".....probably doing something wrong.
Hi, and welcome to CF. :)

Look near the top of the screen - you should see a blue bar with symbols. The one that looks like lightning - click on it. That will show you any threads you have posted in that someone has posted in after you.

If nothing pops up, double click it and it will take you to a page with all your older notifications. It will also tell you about people liking your posts, quoting you, writing a message on your profile page, or following you.

If no one posts after you, it won't come up there, but that's the easiest way to keep track.

(These settings can all be changed, but if you don't do anything that's what you should get.)

Hope that helps. If you have any other questions, feel free to let us know.
 
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I sent you a message. Look on the right hand side at the top of your page and it will show a red message button and you just click that and respond back :].
Except new members can't reply until they have 20 posts and 5 likes. The games section is a quick way to get post count up. :)
 
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cept new members can't reply until they have 20 posts and 5 likes. The games section is a quick way to get post count up. :)
That's right! I forgot lol. You need 20 post first.
 
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I'm not sure why I signed up here, since I wouldn't really call myself a christian by any stretch of the word. But I'm in a dark place right now and christians are such wonderful people from my experience. There must be some sort of correlation with the doctrines Í imagine.

I just want to be happy and not so scared or anxious all the time. I don't know, perhaps I'm in the wrong venue, I just don't know.

And welcome to CF. This thread has gotten confusing, but I don't want you to get lost as a result. Looks like @Southernscotty wants to talk to you? You won't be able to reply to private messages until you have 20 posts and 5 likes, but if you want to go to the game section it's really quick to get your post count up there. :)

Also we have sections you might like for struggles by non-Christians, or for exploring Christianity. Please feel free to ask if we can help in the meantime. :)

Again, welcome! Prayers for you.
 
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