Another I happened to find from Panic at the Disco:
This is Gospel
I'm glad you picked that one. Why? It's awful! The despair is so thick, you could almost cut it with a knife. The lyrics even expressly say that they aren't bonded to anyone and deeply afraid. That's life without God.
The natural realm without God's active involvement is a barren wasteland. Now, I believe I mentioned these girls of mine investigate things. The real question is what do they DO when they encounter these themes and expressions. What does it MEAN to them? They don't relate to the themes of despair.. fear.. isolation. That's not who they are. They listen to it a couple of times and then pass it over for something else that does resonate to them. All my attentiveness and patience is waiting for THAT. What is it that says what they are feeling and thinking?
What is really interesting is that I'm often the Mom who is consulted by friends of my daughters. I regularly get brought into situations that concern them. My daughters tell these other girls that their mother is available and a good listener. That's why I said 'the stories I could tell you'. People think young people don't have big problems. They can.
That's not to say I haven't vetoed songs. I have. It's better, usually, not to veto listening to the songs when I can't enforce it reasonably (they all wear earphones).. to discuss lyrics like 'This Is Gospel'.. etc etc. Having rules one cannot enforce leaches power quickly. Not bragging.. when I do put my foot down it's respected.
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