feo said:
if we Are Genuinely Sorry, it is Still Possible Our Repentance is Imperfect? I'm Not 100% Sure i Completely Understand This Not Your Fault, i Assure You- i'm Just a Bit Slow. Would it be Possible to Provide an Example or Two For Each?
Ok - I will try . .
Let's say I steal something from a friend . . and a few days go by and it starts to bother me, and I start to really wish I hadn't done it . . a few more days go by and I have to undo what I did because my conscience won't give me rest . . so I return the item to my friend . . but I still need to confess my sin to God . .
Now, there are 2 possibilities here . .
One is, I go to the priest, and confess my sin . . I am really sorry I did this, but my motivation is to get this sin off of me so it won't keep me from going to heaven or send me to hell . . in essence I am afraid of what will happen to me if I don't confess . .
The other is I go to the priest, and confess my sin . . I am really sorry, but this time, I have no thought whatsoever for myself, I have no fear over where I might go for having done this sin, I am absorbed with the realization that what I did deeply offended God and for that I have deep remorse, for I experience deep, deep sadness that I hurt God . .
One is "me" oriented in regards to my motiviation, the other is "God" oriented . .
The first is an imperfect act of contrition, and it is here that the danger lies of not being truly soory and repentant, but for which you wish to be, you want to be but your motives aren't entirely right . . The beauty of this is it is in this situation when a priest absolves you of your sins, you can trust that you are really forgiven without worrying that your contrition wasn't perfect . . as hard as we try to make our contrition perfect, it most the times is not . .
I firmly believe a perfect act of contrition is a gift from God . .
I experienced this once in my life, as a young teenager when I had my conversion experience . .I was alone in my room at night just going to bed . . and as soon as I laid down my head on my pillow, God poured a spot light onto my soul and I could see, in a mental vision, all these horrible black spots all over . . I had no thought for myself, no thought of heaven or hell, I was consumed with the fact that these sins hurt God . . and I experienced the deepest repetance and remorse that one can imagine - I began to weep and sob with such sorrow I cannot describe it. . one at a time, or in small cluster, these spots were presented to me . . and all I could do was sob, God, forgive me . .and they were taken away . .and more took their place . . and each time, all I could say was God forgive me . . the tears I shed that night, the pain in my heart for having committed these sins was almost unbearable . .and this went on for hours . . finally I cried myself to sleep and the next moring I could see my soul .. it was completel white . . all the black spots were gone . .
I have not had such a dramatic experience since when it comes to confession, or one so clearly an act of perfect contrition .. it was a gift from God . . I thought it might help . .
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i Opened up John Outta Curiosity, Not Looking For Anything Specific- And Found The Exact Conversation You Talked About! Kinda Ironic huh? But Yes, That Makes Sense. [/quote]
And This is Also One of The More Difficult Things For me to Come to Terms With. it Doesnt Feel Very Comfy to me, to Pray to a Saint- and is This Supported Biblically?
I know, I know, I know . . it was my biggest hurdle . . it did not feel comfortable to me at all . . so I completely understand . . but believe me, if you are willing to allow God to show you, He will! for me, it took many months of struggling with it until I turne to God and asked Him if it was Him, if it was really Him . . He answered bigtime
I think this has more to do with our cultural conditioning, our pushing ourselves away from the "dead' . . and fearing occultism . .
I was into the occult and was going to be a white witch before I had my conversion experience as a teeenager . . so I am really sensitive to anything that has a hint of occultism to it, and my conditioning had predisposed me to be very concerned that I would be entering grave error if I pursued this . .
But God is gentle and merciful, and will take us by the hand and patiently lead us to the fullness of truth . .
I can tell you now that I know my fears were unfounded, and it has been incredible to be aware of the reality of the communion of saints . . This is something incredibly special . . . a ver special gift God has given us to help us . .the personal prayers of those who are before His throne, and the prayers of the Mother of our Lord . .
This is something that helped me, and perhaps it will help you . .
Here on earth, we are to be about our Master's business . .we are to follow in His footsteps and be doing what He does . . .
In heaven, is this less true? Isn't it actually MORE True??
The scriptures tell us that Jesus ever lives to make intercession for us . .
Do you think that when we get to heaven we will do less there than our Lord is doing? If He is interceding, won't we be inreceding as well? Won't we even more perfectly be doing what our Lord does?
Ask God to show you . . look at the prayers of the Rosary . . in fact, come into the Chapel here at OBOB and join us in the parts of the Rosary you can do right now . . they consist of the Our Father, the Glory Be, the Hail Mary (he first half of which is entirely scripture and the second half of which is a prayer asking her intercession) the Jesus prayer asking for forgiveness There will probably be prayer there you would have difficulty with right now, but God is happy with our baby steps, and understanding come in time . .
Wasnt Mother Theresa Catholic? or no?
regardless, You Have any Good Sources About Her?
i'm Not Sure of The Works She Has Done, and i Think i Remember Hearing She Was Catholic. hmmm...
Yes, she was a Catholic . . the Church is moving towards declaring her a saint . . There are several good works about her life, and some she wrote . . I believe one is called A Simple Life . .
Someone though you might really want to read about is Padre Pio . . now Saint Pio . . WOW!
See, i Just Dont See it That Way i Think its Very Possible to Have a Family and still be a Priest... i Think Marriage is Beautiful, From God- and is Something That Shouldnt be Taken Away From Anyone.
is There Any Scripture Supporting a Priests Celibacy? I'm Not Quite Sure if There is or not.
Actually, yes, Paul said it was somthing to be desired . . Proud2bCatholic posted something form the Theology of teh body regarding marriage, celibacy and priest and the connection with the heavenly union . .I will try to find the quote and post here for you too . .
Here is the bible passage that supports celibacy . .
1Co 7:1
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
1Co 7:7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
1Co 7:8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
1Co 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
The Eastern Rite Churches do allow their priests to marry . .but not their bishops . . it is a matter of Church jurisdiction, and priests in the Catholic Church understand this before they become priests . . to be celibate is a gift from God . .
Also, on Another Note- growing up in The Catholic Church, i Always Remember Praying and Reading... in King-James English. is Using another Translation Discouraged in The Catholic Church?
No, not at all . . you can read pretty much any translation you like . .there are some that the Church would be worreid about though as they are poor translations, but the maine ones usually are OK . . many times I have heard Carl keating express it this way . . the best translation is the one you read . .
The Church does favor certain translations over others, the RSV is favored along with the New American Bible, the Douay Rheims bible . .
What is important though is to have the COMPLETE bible .. one that has all the books canonized by the early Church. . the 7 that Luther took out . . and it is best to have them inserted into their proper places in the Old Testament rather than in an appendix or separate part of the bible . . so the only way to do this is to purchase a Catholic Edition of a translation . .
Why Should Birth Control be Frowned upon Between a married Couple? in The Catholic Church, it Always appeared to me that... Sex Was only Done in The Missionary Position- and it Was meant to Create, and Nothing More. is This Notion True, or Was i Just Taught Wrongly? i Think sex WAS Meant to Create- but Also i Believe The Pleasure Elements Are Not.. "bad"- between a married Couple. and i Think if The Couple Wants to Use Birth Control, being They're Married... i dont See This as a Bad Thing.
This is a big topic, fraught with misunderstndings and misconceptions . .
I know I had to reshape my thougts on some of these things, I didn't have a problem with contracpetion, but for some reason, I never felt right about using it myself . . now years later, I begin to understand why . .
Today, the marriage relationship focuses on the couple and thier pleasure . . and pleasure is good and the Church teaches that pleasure in sexual intimacy is good! The Church, however teaches that to have sexual intimacy for pleasure first, as a primary goal, unbalances the purpose of marraige and sex by making what was a gift the purpose . .
The reason for marriage is to creat life . . God is Creator . . He made us in His image . . He made us with the ability to create in OUR image, to become one flesh truly in a new creation of life . .
God is a Trinity . .3 in one . . God as Trinity is a Family . . for man to fully realize himself in God, God gave man a Trinity .. the family . .
If the family is open to new life, it becomes a trinity and begins to realize its fulfillment as a reflection of the Trinity, God as Family . .
If a family, a husband and wife, is using contraception, they are closed off to the possibility of life, and closed off to realizing their fullfilment as a trinity in the image of God, the Trinity . . they put their own needs ahead of God's purpose for creating the family in the image of the Trinity.
The use of contraception, though it seems to the mind to be logical in today's world is actually fraught with danger . .
ALL Christian denominations used to stand against contraception . . all Christian denomiations, one by one, gave into using it first in certain situations, then in all situations . . everyone that is, except the Catholic Church
The Catholic Church predicted that if contraception were to become legal, that abortion would follow, and euthanasia (right to die), etc . . that a demeaning of life would ensue . . and that is what we have seen .a hundred years later . . the prediction became true . .When I learned about this, I was shocked, and it was with an eiree finality that I realized this was all true . .
Contraceptives do not just prevent conception . . the pill now also prevents implantation, thus making it an abortifant . . so, many, many women taking the pill are actually keeping the babies they have already conceived from implanting in their womb, causing an abortion . .
This issue is no so easy as it seems on the surface. . once you start digging into the Church's position and why, you learn things you never knew before and you are shocked at some of what you learn . .
i would ask that you keep an open mind about this and not simply react . . and not reject this stance of the Church without first really understanding it .
As far as sexual positions go . . there is no one position . . though certain ones promote conception in certain people . .
This has Probably been covered in another Post. i'll Try to read Them After i finish Posting This one.
I have to break this post up . . so here come part II !
Peace in Him!