Vix said:
Edial,
You're right, I do understand hell as a place of mind numming pain, and I cannot understand why good people should be subjected to that.
Vix. It is still not clear what is it exactly that you want to achieve by your post.
You agree that I understood your presumptions correctly, yet you
are not asking follow up questions.
It appears you have convinced yourself of the "unfairness of the situation" and you are not willing to accept anything less than that.
Elsewhere in the thread (I think it is this thread

) I was mentioning that it indeed is an unfair situation to receive a "death sentence" for a "parking ticket".
I am giving you opportunities to ask follow up questions. Unless, you do not want answers, that is.
I hope you want answers and not a "confirmation" of something that you convinced yourself of. (I am sorry for appearing too forward).
Possible question - is the pain "mind numbing" or not?
Some more possible questions - what is afterlife? Is it the same as the "Burning Lake"? And since only the worst of the worst will "wind up" in the burning lake, and my husband was not worst of the worst - what are the options? ets, etc, etc.
Vix said:
The way I feel now is that I cannot comprehend any justice in it so I will not accept it.
NO ONE in his right mind accepts a possibility that God will send a good man into a Burning Lake. !
(They might convince themselves that is how it is. They do not understand it).
So what is accomplished here?
All you are doing is "setting yourself up" to reject Christ.
Don't you see that?
Here is a statement you made -
Maybe I didn't make myself clear, it's not my husband that expects to get to heaven, how can he if he doesn't think it exists? It's my fear that if I'm to accept what your all saying and I believe in Christ and repent my sins and my husband, and the rest of my family and friends don't see things that way then they will go to hell, and I will be without them. It's an incredibly hard thing to accept.
This is a legitimate statement. It is a "great" statement, as a matter of fact. This can be discussed and some very real answers derived where you will understand a bigger picture.
Example - if the afterlife is not the same as the Burning Lake, can one be saved from it? If not, why not? Can you prove it?
Suppose he would not want to be saved from it, why not? How about the babies that never knew Christ? How about that Chinese farmer?
Whay wouldn't he come to where I am at? Why not? Can he?
Vix said:
I do appreciate all your comments, I've found it really interesting reading through them all.
I have to say though, I find it pretty interesting that everyone can argue so much, it seems a shame to me that you all want to argue over the Bible rather than celebrate each others differences in opinion - surely that isn't what God wants!?
Do you know why we "argue" about the Bible? Because no one is indifferent towards it. No one. Jesus Christ was the only person against whom there is no indifference.
There is the truth in the Bible and it brings out the "best" or the "worst" in the person.
You remember the disciples before the resurrection of the Lord? What a sorry bunch. Just like us. They argued, debated over the smallest things. After the resurrection, things changed. But that's another topic.
Also, lots of the people that call themselves Christians are not in the true sense of the word. Remember the 72 "dicsiples" of Jesus Christ that left him and only the 12 left? And then we had the Judas Iscariot?
Look at Jesus and not at us.
Also, if you want to ask questions on this forum - expect all kind of answers, because as I said, not all that call themselves believers, are.
You want to understand Biblical responses you can PM whomever you feel "led" to. But ask Jesus Christ first who to ask. Ask him sincerely and aloud.
And if I am not even in the same zip code with my assumtions . ... never mind.
Thanks,
Ed