Grace to you Bluelion... If I can help...
What you could do is to ask God to... "FORGIVE THEM" for they not know what they do" as Jesus did on the cross. (Luke 23:34)
Ok... now that your done... Let's learn about entering into God's REST.
Sounds like you have prayed, prayed, and prayed and DONE all YOU can do on your own. It's NOW time for you to Enter Into His Rest. (IMO), All of the "pray, prayer, and praying" is not necessary...
Please hear me out. For years... most churches have taught that we are to "grab the horns of the alter" and to keep on praying until you FEEL that release. (More on this later)
Back to entering His REST...
Heb 4:9-11This is how to enter His REST... BELIEVE, and IF you give it to God... He will give you His REST.
There remaineth therefore a REST to the people of God. For he that is entered into His REST, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from His. Let us labour therefore to enter into that REST, (BELIEVE), lest any man fall after the same example of "unbelief."
John 6:28-29 We find Jesus being asked the same question by the multitude who had been awed by His miracles..."What shall we do, that we may WORK the works of God?" Notice how Jesus answered them: "This is the work (Labour) of God, that you BELIEVE in Him whom He sent."
Matthew 11:28-30 "Come to me all who are weary and carrying heavy burdens And I will give you REST."NOW... start RESTING.
I Pet 5:7 "Casting all your CARE UPON HIM; for he careth for you."
When we BELIEVE that God is doing all these things for us, and so much more, THEN... we can stop "doing" things in our own strength, and you can live with ongoing peace, knowing He will freely give you all things. This is where it's not necessary to "pray, prayer, and praying." Yes... PRAYER is first and foremost. But we must enter in to BELIEVE what were praying for. (Not to say you are not... but at times... we may all do)
Perhaps this will help... I PRAYED... I BELIEVE I RECEIVE... I TRUST... I ENTER HIS REST... God ANSWERS... I REJOICE (NOW... Let HIM complete the WORK... (Regardless of what you SEE in your families situation... BELIEVE!)
We are to labor every day to enter His rest. His REST is to BELIEVE that the work is already done because it is a FINISHED WORK," and NOW... we trust in Gods undeserved favor toward us (Grace).
Sometimes... we can find it hard to REST because our human nature is inclined towards worry and restlessness... and we can find ourselves into disbelief and not entering into His REST.
We do this same RESTING in God's FINISHED WORK (The redemptive BLOOD of Christ) for any need, or situation that comes up whether it's for healing, prosperity, or ANY of the promises of God. So, Let's abide in His REST...
Father... I cast this CARE of my family upon you for you care for me. I have done all I can do. I have spoken your Word and I refuse to worry, with doubt and unbelief. I believe, I receive, when I prayed... Right NOW... I trust you and "enter" into your REST. Thank you for renewing my mind with your Word. It is finished...
I hope this can be helpful to someone...
Just a little add on note... Most of the time broken relationships are the fault of ALL people involved and I believe you are aware of that...
Your are blessed...
I have prayed for her and God has blessed her and I have step in and helped her many many times. Truth is you can have a relationship when only one person is trying. The abuse is nothing new been going sense I was a kid. I prefer not to go into it. I don't need to speak bad of her I don't feel that would be honoring her or God. So I have been trying the best I can to leave out as much details as possible.
What you said about it takes two for a relationship to fail, would that be true with a woman who is beaten by her boy friend or husband. Did she do some thing to deserve the abuse? What you said is a good saying of men, but is not always truth and it only works with normal relationships.
But thank you for your words. Taking rest in God is important.
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