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I was dating the most amazing guy I had ever met. He is a christian on fire for God as am I. We would read the bible together and pray together daily. We were inlove with eachother and with God.

My boyfriend prayed one night for God to reveal to him if I was the one. That same night we got into a little argument over a misunderstanding. My boyfriend got angry, but I was not.

The next day my boyfriend broke up with me. He said he feels that the little argument we had the night was God way of telling him I am not the right girl for him. He tells me he is still madly inlove with me, but he feels in his heart that it is not God's will.

Why do I still feel in my heart that he is my soulmate? We were so perfect for eachother. I am just having a hard time understanding this. :sigh:
 

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Heavenly Father, let our dear sister be given wisdom this night. Father, fill her beyond measure with Your Truth, Your Guidance, Your Counsil. Lord, You know the heartbreak that she is going through, the pain and the loss she feels. Lift her spirits my Lord, free her from this saddness. Let her stand firm in You, knowing You are with her, leading her into Your Will. My God, let peace be upon this woman. Settle her raging thoughts, her fears and her worries. Bless her this day with Your Wonderful Presence. In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen
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I was dating the most amazing guy I had ever met. He is a christian on fire for God as am I. We would read the bible together and pray together daily. We were inlove with eachother and with God.

My boyfriend prayed one night for God to reveal to him if I was the one. That same night we got into a little argument over a misunderstanding. My boyfriend got angry, but I was not.

The next day my boyfriend broke up with me. He said he feels that the little argument we had the night was God way of telling him I am not the right girl for him. He tells me he is still madly inlove with me, but he feels in his heart that it is not God's will.

Why do I still feel in my heart that he is my soulmate? We were so perfect for eachother. I am just having a hard time understanding this. :sigh:

Heavenly Father....
Here us as we call out to You.

I lift ekerazy before Your Mighty Throne this night.
O' Lord... she is hurting.
But, You know that.
You know all things.

If this guy is the one you have for her, will you allow their relationship to be reconciled?

Which ever way it goes, Lord...
will You pour out Your Peace on her.
Let her know that you are her Father...
You are the King...
and she is a Princess.

May she feel Your Love this night.

Thank you, Father...that you teach your children to bring their burdens to others...so that others can lift them to You.

You are Great and Mighty....
And You are worthy of all our Praise !

Amen.
 
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Hi, If this is who our Father has chosen for you, he will be back. Be patient and wait:)

Father, we know Your are a Father that cares about His children. Touch her Father and mend her heart. Teach her to first seek Your kingdom and all things will be added. Teach her what Your will is for her life. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen.
 
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Lord help to heal our sister's heart
Grant and give her comfort and that
You will help her to lean her head on you
And that you will never, ever, leave nor
Forsake your children in thy name and will amen
 
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Heavenly Father, let our dear sister be given wisdom this night. Father, fill her beyond measure with Your Truth, Your Guidance, Your Counsil. Lord, You know the heartbreak that she is going through, the pain and the loss she feels. Lift her spirits my Lord, free her from this saddness. Let her stand firm in You, knowing You are with her, leading her into Your Will. My God, let peace be upon this woman. Settle her raging thoughts, her fears and her worries. Bless her this day with Your Wonderful Presence. In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen
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Father I Stand In Agreement In Jesus Holy Name. Amen
 
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Heavenly Father, let our dear sister be given wisdom this night. Father, fill her beyond measure with Your Truth, Your Guidance, Your Counsil. Lord, You know the heartbreak that she is going through, the pain and the loss she feels. Lift her spirits my Lord, free her from this saddness. Let her stand firm in You, knowing You are with her, leading her into Your Will. My God, let peace be upon this woman. Settle her raging thoughts, her fears and her worries. Bless her this day with Your Wonderful Presence. In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen
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Amen
 
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praying for you. i'm also in sort of similar situation..everytime i ask God if he is the one..i get very strong vibes that he is and God really did send him to me. but after a awhile..things start to fall apart..and when i pray to God to seek and answer,that if he is not the one please allow me to let go. but i always feel that God is telling me to be patient and hang on.
please pray for restoration with me n michael too. thank you
 
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Heavenly Father, let our dear sister be given wisdom this night. Father, fill her beyond measure with Your Truth, Your Guidance, Your Counsil. Lord, You know the heartbreak that she is going through, the pain and the loss she feels. Lift her spirits my Lord, free her from this saddness. Let her stand firm in You, knowing You are with her, leading her into Your Will. My God, let peace be upon this woman. Settle her raging thoughts, her fears and her worries. Bless her this day with Your Wonderful Presence. In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen
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Father, I stand in agreement with this prayer at thy will. Amen

“Again, I say to you, that if two of you are in agreement on earth about anything for which they will make a request, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name; there am I with them." Matthew 18:18-20.
 
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ekerazy-Im sooo sorry to hear about this, I even asked my two daughters their thoughts, but they arent sure what to say either.
Jesus, please bring your comfort to this woman. Keep her on fire for You Lord. Help her with this loss and bring her strength and renewal of her spirit and joy. In Jesus name we pray. I pray for her bf that he may consider the sign from God and if it was a reasonable sign that she is NOT Gods will for his life. Jesus, help the bf with this and bring peace to him over this situation. amen.
 
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Heavenly Father, bless our sister and lead her through this time. Fill her with Your peace and joy to heal the pain and hurt that she's feeling. Help her to be able to move on and to know that the one You have in store for her will be there one day. In Jesus' holy name I pray. Amen.
 
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I've prayed for your needs. Keep staying faithful even if He doesn't bless you in the way you thought He would. He knows best and only wants the BEST for you! Please remember that. :hug:

I'm here always to pray for you, so please feel free to send me your private prayer requests via pm at any time.
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"But You are a God ready to pardon, gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great steadfast love." ~Nehemiah 9:17

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PS Love is so hard... to trust, to feel, and to understand. God will bring you two back together if its meant to be. Please remind him that sometimes when we think we're hearing God, it's really something else (I'm sure you know who I'm talking about). God IS love, He isn't anger or hurt or jealousy. Have your friend read 1 Corinthians 13, it might offer him insight on what love truly is (defined by God). :hug:
 
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