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sanaa

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why do guys break girls hearts?

i stay in bombay , india . i have talked to this guy from indiana , usa for more than 2 years . we are great friends and have been a source of constant support to each other ( both of us dont exactly have great lives ) . we talk practically everyday . and hes an important part of my life . we have exchanged pictures and letters and cards though we have never talked on the phone . we had been having big fights on some issues for the past month but we resolved all that and everything was goin pretty good . then on this friday we had another fight on some other matter but we made up soon after that ( atleast i think we did ) . we were supposed to talk on saturday and he even emailed me to say he ll be coming online . an hour before we were supposed to talk , i saw him online but unfortunately he could not get my ims due to some problem . he left and he never came back . its been more than 2 days and he has not come online , nor has he emailed me . i think hes blowing me off and it hurts . i dont even see a proper reason as to why he would do that . on saturday when he dint come back online , i asked his friend to call him up ( his friend is on my list too though he doesnt come online that much) . his friend said there was no answer ( though thats common in his case ) . now my friend plays in a band and things get pretty wild at the places he plays ( hes been stabbed before ) . i am really worried about him . i just want to make sure hes ok and ask him why he hasnt been comin on to talk to me . even his friend has not been online . i have his phone number so i called up today but the guy who picked up ( i guess it was my friend but i cant be sure because i havent spoken to him before ) said he couldnt really understand my accent and hung up after a min . i was too embarrased to call back . now i dont know if my friend is allrite and why he hasnt been comin to talk to me . its driving me crazy . what do i do ? please dont laugh at this
 

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thank u all for ur support . its been nearly 3 days and no word from him . i just pray that hes allright. and am gettin a pretty strong feeling that he is . a long time ago too when we had a few fights he took off for the weekend without even telling me . well am not in the mood for any more games . it sucks to blow someone off like that . an email saying he doesnt want to talk would have helped. am trying to stay positive . some of the other things in my life am deppressed about are beyond my control , but this one and a few others i can stay positive about . if he doesnt want to talk ill just grant him his wish and try move on
 
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Get strong in The Lord - the wise person builds their life on that Rock, he'll make u stronger through every situation, then give u a man u can trust cos he wants the same.

Acts 1:8: But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you . . . 2:4: And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.
 
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NJA said:
Get strong in The Lord - the wise person builds their life on that Rock, he'll make u stronger through every situation, then give u a man u can trust cos he wants the same.

Acts 1:8: But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you . . . 2:4: And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.

yes , the only 2 people u can trust in the world are God and yourself
 
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That's no problem, you can receive salvation too !
But like me and others, you need to accept that what u were brought up to believe doesn't *do* the miracles you need, you need to believe in an *active* God who does what we need, things that we cannot find in our own or other people's ideas.

He wants you to *receive* his nature ! - His power and abilities, that's true grace.
 
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Sanaa I'm sorry the guy jerked you around like that. It's very hard when you don't know if the person is just angry or if something bad is going on in their lives. I don't know whether to advise you just move on and not depend on him as a friend anymore.

Only you know if he's messed up your trust that much. If you don't want his friendship anymore, I hope you can find other ways to deal with situations that are depressing in life right now.

:hug:
 
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hey ravenscape thanks for the sweet post . i was just going to post and tell everyone that he came back a few days ago . we talked and sorted stuff out . i kind of saw what went on in his head . things are pretty much ok again . i accept him as he is , so am doing ok . coping with the other things too . :) thanks again everyone
 
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