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My brother who has hurt me a lot, just said sorry to me. Reason he said sorry was because he wanted to do it before I move countries. Just because I was moving, why couldn't of he said sorry before when I wasn't moving. I don't know how to react, I will still have flashbacks, I will still feel out of control, all the things that have come because of the abuse, don't stop because he said sorry. He is sorry that he caused me so much pain, that I tried to take my life many times, he is sorry that he didnt realise that the reason I was doing that was partly because of what he had done. But who cares anyway, I'm still a messed up 18 year old who will live with what he did for the rest of her life, yes he may think of it sometimes, but he wont be the one holding when I am hiding under blankets, he wont be the one talking to me when I am upset because something happens that reminds me of it. He isn't the one majorly affected I am, yet sorry is meant to fix, I'm sorry my brother you can go away, sorry doesn't fix a thing
 

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