He broke it off

[goodgirl]

well maybe he CAN do better... maybe so can you! I think most people deserve better than to be married to someone who wasn't God's will for them or is incompatible with them.

Anyhow, how're you doing?? A godawful birthday present, wow!!

 

[natgirl2002]

I let go of him....

 

[User9056]

Good

 

[angelstarlette]

Natgirl,

I am sorry he hurt you. It can be hard when you hear someone you love say you are not good enough for me. The only people who need to say that you are not good enough for them are insecure. He did not need to say that to you. It is good that you are starting to get over it, but give yourself time. It will take time for you to get over this relationship. I would say just make sure he is out of your life. Give him back his stuff as soon as possible and get him out of your life.

He is obviously is insecure with himself, because otherwise he would not say those things. If he had any consideration for you he would not have said those things, especially on your birthday. Just try to get through this time, because it will take a while. I hope things get better.

angelstarlette

 

[OpenMinded-Protestant]

Hey Nat, sorry to hear that. Happy B-Day though!

dont be suprised if he comes back around after awhile... Lots of guys break off relationships near a holiday or birthday cuz they dont want to buy a gift.

ITS TRUE! they may have been having break-up thoughts for a while... but when it comes to buying that someone something, guys really start to evaluate their stance in the relationship! anywyas, if he does come back... DONT TAKE HIM BACK! it will never work! theres definitly a guy out there for you, you might be suprised that, as soon as you stop looking for him, he'll show up!

 

[natgirl2002]

THANKS!

 

[Erichero]

Don't get mad with him of course ... he's not the enemy. If you were not the one God planned for him, then he should definitely have called it off. But he certainly wasn't very kind about it! The Bible says "Let your speech be seasoned with grace"

The most amazing thing you can do now is to respond to cursing with blessing. It will really set you free! Thank God for the time you had together and for the deposit you could make in his life. And thank God that He intervened for you and that what the devil intends for harm can turn out for your blessing and God's glory.

Don't treat him badly ... be kind, but draw the line, because it's over now and God's got better things in store.

Matt 5:4 - "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted"

 

[natgirl2002]

yes, i hav been doing that, i have prayed for him a lot too.

 

[Glorianna]

I NEED PRAYERS HE BROKE OFF THE MARRIAGE...HE SAID " I HONESTLY DONT WANT OT MARRY YOU" IM IN PAIN..ITS MY BDAY AND IM CRYING..I HAVENT SLEPT OR EATEN.....PRAYERS PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

I know that this happened a while ago but I can imagine that you're probably still hurting. I am so sorry. You're in my prayers.