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gvsuman

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Have you ever had a time where you felt just so alone? And there is nobody, besides God, that you can turn to to just let it all out, and all of your 'friends' are just acting like they care? I know I'm not the only one thats experienced this, and was wandering of any good ways to get over it?
 

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Its said that there was nothing accept god before god created the univese.

So, you can undestand a possible motive when you are loney for creating other intelligence capable of exchanging feelings. Embrace you're loneyness its an important aspect and may help you learn something new in the future? Dont you agree?
 
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i feel that way...but usually it's out of paranoia...i guess. but during those times, nothing will help me think a different way. i will question every friendship/relationship...
or i'll think that they're plotting against me.

hmmm...sorry you feel that way though. wish i had ideas on how to stop those moments.
 
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gvsuman said:
Have you ever had a time where you felt just so alone? And there is nobody, besides God, that you can turn to to just let it all out, and all of your 'friends' are just acting like they care? I know I'm not the only one thats experienced this, and was wandering of any good ways to get over it?
Yes, I've felt that way, even in a room full of people! I used to think that my friends were just saying stuff for "show" but I have come to realize that they were being genuine. I needed a lot of prayer to see that. Pray and read your Bible. God shows us all kinds of stuff in His word.
 
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I've felt that way many times. Seems like when I am up spiritually, I am way up and I promise myself I won't let myself get low again, but then it happens...for me often its when I stop praying as much, stop reading the Bible as much. You just have to press on, push forward, and when you feel like you can't do that, just STAND. You know God is always there and hears you, and your friends probably care more than you realize. People just get so caught up in themselves, and their problems and pain they become blind to the hurt around them.
 
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