• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Have we fixed the problem?

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Relationships before our divorces were difficult enough. We can carry alot of baggage just from growing up in the homes we were raised in or not raised in. Many times the reasons for our divorces are found in the baggage we brought with us. The main baggage we need to deal with is the one of "identity." We may have come into our first marriages hoping our spouse would help define us or maybe support who we thought we were, but really never discovering who we were.
As a christian, God's word tells us we are a "new creation", the old things are passed away, behold "new" things have come. Have we figured out what this new identity is and what difference it makes?:confused: