try to defend themselves or get support from family members of their childhood abuse you endured?
i was physically, sexually, mentally, emotionally, and verbally abused in my childhood and no one helped.
my mother gave my siblings authority over me, and when i did something wrong she would tell them and i would get a beating. when the beating was over she would say to me stop crying or you'll wake up your dad, and go take a bath.
my cousin molested me when i was 12 til i was 14 years old, i told my mother and she did nothing, she didn't even tell my dad.
now that i am an adult i am sticking up for myself and i am not getting any support from my mother or siblings. ( my father is dead)
not that i am second guessing myself...but this is pretty messed up.
some of the most recent things that has happened were...my fathers funeral my mother had the molester a pallbearer when i begged her not to her response was get over it. it was my mother 70 birthday that i have been planning since january of this year and my oldest brother insisted the party had to be at my aunts house...her son was the one that molested me. i begged my brother not to have it there he wouldn't listen, and my husband called my brother and told him we will not be attending this birthday my brother said no problem.
this is what i've been going thru for 8 years...8 years ago i gave my life to CHRIST. i know that this is part of my healing but...i just feel all alone.
i was physically, sexually, mentally, emotionally, and verbally abused in my childhood and no one helped.
my mother gave my siblings authority over me, and when i did something wrong she would tell them and i would get a beating. when the beating was over she would say to me stop crying or you'll wake up your dad, and go take a bath.
my cousin molested me when i was 12 til i was 14 years old, i told my mother and she did nothing, she didn't even tell my dad.
now that i am an adult i am sticking up for myself and i am not getting any support from my mother or siblings. ( my father is dead)
not that i am second guessing myself...but this is pretty messed up.
some of the most recent things that has happened were...my fathers funeral my mother had the molester a pallbearer when i begged her not to her response was get over it. it was my mother 70 birthday that i have been planning since january of this year and my oldest brother insisted the party had to be at my aunts house...her son was the one that molested me. i begged my brother not to have it there he wouldn't listen, and my husband called my brother and told him we will not be attending this birthday my brother said no problem.
this is what i've been going thru for 8 years...8 years ago i gave my life to CHRIST. i know that this is part of my healing but...i just feel all alone.
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