I don't know about you but every since I lost the baby it is VERY VERY hard to even want to look at someone pregnant or talk to someone who is. Does anyone else have or had these feelings?
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hey hun. i imagine it is part of your grief. grieving takes a toll on our hearts. it sounds like it is a trigger to your feelings. 
bless your heart! God bless you.
Dear Father, you know what honey needs. you chose her to carry a sweet child, so please place comfort about her. heal her grief to be something that is not causing her to have such a difficult struggle around others. in Jesus' name, amen.
bless your heart! God bless you.Dear Father, you know what honey needs. you chose her to carry a sweet child, so please place comfort about her. heal her grief to be something that is not causing her to have such a difficult struggle around others. in Jesus' name, amen.
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llghoney said:
Hello, How are you? I know you lost your baby not too long ago and I do hope you are ok.
I have had 5 miscarriages and everytime after each one I couldnt look at another pregnant woman. I used to get a lump in my throat wondering if only I hadnt miscarried and get pretty upset. I didnt like people talking about it either. It is a very personal thing you are going through honey and you are grieving. You ahve a right to grieve and I know it doesnt help when you see other women who are pregnant or have friends who have just found out they are too. Its strange isnt it how since your miscarriage you cant but help see lots of pregnant women around.
I know one day the hurt you are feeling will go away and be replaced by joy when you know one day you will be with your baby in heaven.
I know you are hurting, but you take your time in your thoughts with your baby in mind.
God bless you honey. You are in my thoughts.
All my love Jacqui. x x x x
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Thank you ladies sooo much for your words of encouragement & thoughts!
May God bless you in every area of your life!
May God bless you in every area of your life!
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I used to buy a pregnancy test kit every two days during the time that I had four miscarriages. A few times, they were positive and I'd be happy, but then I'd panick and think "don't get your hopes up Hannah". I actually grew to hate pregnant people, mainly the TEEN pregnant people who didn't even want to be pregnant!! How I longed to trade places with their bellies. Eventually, God blessed me with two wonderful kids, but that time in my life was the hardest struggle ever. I still believe that I had those miscarriages because of the stress of dealing with an abusive husband. Yes, it's part of the greif cycle. It takes a long time to overcome (I still deal with it two kids later) but God will help you through. Find someone you can share your heart to and cry with at church. The more you let it out, the quicker the pain will fade away.
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