Hi again,
Here are a few more thoughts regarding the extent of God’s love:
Matthew 5:43-48
43 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' 44But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? 48 You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
It seems to be consistent with Calvinistic thought Jesus would have commanded us to love only some of our enemies and not others, or some not quite so much as others. We also would have been told to do good only to some people while excluding others and we definitely would have been told to forgive and be merciful to only a select few. This, of course, is not what we are told to do because it is not what God does.
God wants us to be like Him and has commanded us how to do so. Therefore, how God has commanded us to behave toward others reveals the extent of His own love and forgiveness. God is not holding us to a higher standard than Himself. Impossible.
Luke 11:4
Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us.
Luke 17:3-4
"If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him. 4 If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says, 'I repent,' forgive him."
Matthew 18:32-33
"Then the master called the servant in. 'You wicked servant,' he said, 'I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn't you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?'
Luke 6:32-36
If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
Luke 17:3-4
"If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him. 4 If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says, 'I repent,' forgive him."
Luke 23:34
Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."
John 3:17
For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
John 8:10-11
Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" 11 "No one, sir," she said. "Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."
Romans 12:20
"If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head."
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.
Galatians 6:10
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.
Hebrews 13:16
And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.
James 2:8-9
If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, "Love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing right. 9 But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers.
You are right in saying God loves the whole world. God loves everyone in the world enough to lift up the Son of Man like Moses lifted up the bronze serpent, so anyone (without favoritism) who looks upon Him shall be saved. That is the kind of Father's love that is perfect and worthy of emulation.
John 3:14-18
Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, 15 that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life. 16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son.
Blessings!