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Hard First Break Up....

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I been with this guy for almost 3 years and we were even engaged and I was trying so hard to make things work but he grew so cold and he started to become a different person by the second year. He started to choose everybody and everything over me. His behavior got so bad that I was suspicious of him cheating because I wouldn't hear from him for a day or 2 on the weekends... He was the best bf the first year and then it went from that to him treating me bad all the time...

When we met he wasn't a Christian but he became one half a year into our relationship. After a while though he started to loose interest and that is what really separated us because he always wants to go to bars and drink and do things that I that I try to stay away from as a Christian.... I'm very attached to him and it hurts so much. We broke up almost a month ago and I tried to stay his friend hoping that maybe he would get his act together and maybe we get back together one day but he always goes out of his way to hurt me...

He lied to me and took another girl to a concert and didn't tell me, I had to find out on fb... I finally am at a point where I see that I have to really try hard to cut him off now because I can't take anymore heartbreak and that is all he seems to do.. Please pray for me to be comforted, to have the joy and peace of the Lord, and for the soul tie between us to be cut... Pray for God to heal my broken heart and for my next relationship to be in God's will. Also pray for my ex Tyler to be brought back to the Lord, for his heart to be softened, for the works of the enemy to be torn down in his life, and for him to follow God's will and not the way of the world.

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Those breakups are so hurtful - but just know you are a Child of God and God is working for your best interest. You might be too young to remember - but the song 'Thank God for unanswered prayers' - it's about breakups - and when God doesn't answer your prayer the way you want does not mean they are not answered. You will see the wisdom in this breakup a little farther down the line. Just hang in there and pray for wisdom to understand what is going on and pray for guidance.
 
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Thank you both for the prayers! I really appreciate it and I really need them... Its been so hard because I still love him and my stomach hurts and I get anxiety because of it but its getting better with the help of God and the prayers and support of friends and family.... I feel so tempted to talk to him but I know I can't because there is nothing else to say after all this and he will just hurt me again... :(
 
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Just4Jesus said:
:hug: I'm sorry honey. I have been there too
It hurts but keep trusting Him in all things. Sometimes what hurts the most only makes you stronger. :hug:
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Thank you, and yeah that is true! :hug:
 
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Mandy=There ain't no easy breakups or goodbyes..But this guy did you a favor-maybe one of the biggest you will ever get. We need to take our time with things; cause the new wears off..then things change..Remember we are told about shalllow roots. Not everything that is planted makes it to harvest.

You will get through this and you will find someone who is Deserving of YOU. The wrong people have to leave so the right ones can have a proper place in your life. It gets easier and you get stronger, he gets to regret loosing you one day-God is just!
 
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whitebeaches said:
im sorry you are hurt. praying for you (((( hugs ))))
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Thank you so much :) I appreciate it! :hug:

I know all of the prayers from everybody have really helped me through this painful time of my life! I am so grateful to everybody for taking your time to pray for me!
 
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