You have the answer to that Patrick just don't tell them, easy really don't you think, as to people's opinion on you let them think what they like.. until they walk in your shoes they will never know you, really there opinion is just that not needed or wanted so ignore them, best policy all round don't you think...then you can move on with a clear head..
Oh dear..just think how many poor turkey's gave there life so all you people could eat it.. gross much or what and I hope you said thank you for it.. but I doubt it ..