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Halloween 2018

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Ok... This may be SLIGHTLY early.

But I love costumes so I am always crazy excited for Halloween. Do you celebrate?
No we do not celebrate.

Several years ago I was invited to a conference on Messianic Jewish liturgy. One of the presenters led a congregation in the New York City area. He said a young Jewish (traditional) couple stopped in his office one day and asked about Halloween. THey were new to the City and trying to find a congregation. Every one they visited were preparing for a big costume party for Halloween. So the Messianic rabbi said that no, they did not observe that day; their big costume event was Purim. That new family (even though they did NOT believe in Jesus) started attending.

This next spring our congregation is doing a Purim play based on the Esther story in the “Guys and Dolls” setting. I get to play Mordechai dressed in a Zoot Suit.
 
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When the kids were in HS we used to throw a party. It was a nice excuse to meet the friend's parents too!

It was rather fun for all of us, and it was interesting to see how creative some of the kids go with costumes. It was funny, because the older they got the more creative. Once the kids hit the age of 21? They still had their soda of course, but pudding shots came on the scene too. Thankfully, their friends were not the type that allow their booze to get out of hand. lol we were prepared though!

We just moved to our retirement home, and I'm thinking I will bring the decorations out we have had for years...lol to dress up the place! To me it is just a celebration that fall is coming/here!
 
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To me it is just a celebration that fall is coming/here!

Same here.
We don't celebrate Halloween, but I sure do LOVE decorating and celebrating the fall. It smells so wonderful outside right now, so fresh and crisp. :)
 
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Well, I get decorated buildings and costumes at work, but it is a little different. :)

What do you do?
I'm a trainer for a software company. But we move on site with each client so our rules and holidays are determined by the clients rules and holidays at each location. Like last year my site was more religiously prone so we could wear costumes as long as they weren't "scary"
 
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So here's something I've been wondering about for a while. In America, do people tend to make a big deal out of everything like this? What I mean is, here Christmas is big and people might have some tinsel in the office or whatever, but apart from that we just don't do this. Workplaces don't get into different seasons or holidays and people don't tend to decorate at home and stuff. It's just not a thing.

So, is this just a big part of American culture in all sorts of ways or is Halloween somehow an exception?
 
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I don't decorate or celebrate Halloween, and I'm not taking my son trick-or-treating until he reaches an age where he really wants to. If I were to get him a costume this year, it would be Elmo lol. I'm definitely going to buy some candy though, need some candy.
 
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We celebrate here and I always have. October for us is spent going to every corn maze, pumpkin patch, hayride, festival, etc... in the surrounding areas. Kids have themed shirts, shoes, socks, hairbows, pjs, etc... Saturdays we are doing Halloween/fall baking together and a kid appropriate Halloween movie night with our treats and popcorn. We decorate the house inside and out. I wanted to make huge foam spiders to put on the outside of our upper balcony, but I was afraid the neighbors would be creeped out by spiders. We don't do gore or anything too dark or witchy, but I think a little bit of scare/ fun/ specialness is important for imagination. We are aren't overboard and consider myself in the moderately high category. We live in a mostly Orthodox neighborhood (Catholic and Jewish) so not too many people decorate or trick or treat ,although some do. We have had as few as 1 sole trick or treater (during a hurricane year) and as many as 30 come by our house.

By comparison, the neighborhood 10 min. from us goes all out: they have a massive population of trick or treaters on Halloween and neighbors try to out do one another on decor.
 
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So here's something I've been wondering about for a while. In America, do people tend to make a big deal out of everything like this? What I mean is, here Christmas is big and people might have some tinsel in the office or whatever, but apart from that we just don't do this. Workplaces don't get into different seasons or holidays and people don't tend to decorate at home and stuff. It's just not a thing.

So, is this just a big part of American culture in all sorts of ways or is Halloween somehow an exception?
It's really down to the individual. Some people really go all out and some people don't for Halloween. Some people make a big deal of all holidays and some might like one holiday over another or don't do anything for any holiday. It depends on the location where you live as well. Some towns are all about Halloween and kid centered activities , but some are not. It's also like that at workplaces. I've never worked in a place that encouraged dressing up for Halloween (I've always worked in school environments - we had a Halloween party for children in class, but no costumes and scant decor,) , but there are work environments that do encourage it and have fun with it.
 
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So here's something I've been wondering about for a while. In America, do people tend to make a big deal out of everything like this? What I mean is, here Christmas is big and people might have some tinsel in the office or whatever, but apart from that we just don't do this. Workplaces don't get into different seasons or holidays and people don't tend to decorate at home and stuff. It's just not a thing.

So, is this just a big part of American culture in all sorts of ways or is Halloween somehow an exception?

Nahh. It depends on the family. Now, you do have commercials for each and every event on the calendar only because they are trying to sell you something. Other than that? It's up to you.

What is neat is that certain areas have more cultural events. When I was a kid we used to go down to an area that was named Chinatown. That wasn't the literal name, but everyone - including those that lived there called it that. They had certain holidays that are celebrated in China, and you could come down to participate. We also had a large spanish speaking population, and they also brought their celebrations here - and you were allowed to participate in those too.

When I was active in the business community? We put together an Oktoberfest. We partnered up with a Germany group, and raised funds for college scholarships. People were confused, because it was held in September. Traditionally, it had nothing to do with the month itself - it was a celebration of the harvest. lol among other things!

We had a traditional German entertainment, food, beer/wine and activities. We actually had the elected German Prince coming to the festival, and do their program - and the cracking open of the Keg ceremony. Also the dancer's came in, etc. It was a learning experience, and also a very fun time on top of it. We used to call it a huge party for 15,000 people over the weekend! We added more to it each year - something big or something smaller like adding in traditional potato cakes.

Oktoberfest was celebrated in my family more than other holidays only due to my involvement, and we had a blast! We did this on a bigger scale than Halloween. It was only once the kids got into HS, and my Oktoberfest days were over did we have a party on that night. These things do help to break life up a bit.

It's up to the families and the areas if they decide they want a larger celebration - or a smaller more personal one. If you decide - as with this example of Halloween - you want to do this big? You can go to an area that really puts on a show if your area doesn't really get into it. Larger cities tend to have more 'big deals' than smaller communities due to their diversity, etc.
 
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I present my first costumes of the year- from New York Comic Con!

Sailor Peach and Tuxedo Mario
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Esmeralda and Djali
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I've been wondering about for a while. In America, do people tend to make a big deal out of everything like this?
So, is this just a big part of American culture in all sorts of ways or is Halloween somehow an exception?

Paidiske, hi..

Yeah, holiday decorating has become huge in the US. Christmas decorating has been big for a long time.. but now every holiday season seems to get longer & more elaborate. Christmas decorations start showing up for sale in September (it used to not start until after Thanksgiving). It just gradually expanded. And probably during the 9os, Halloween decorations & lights became more varied, it's decorating time table became earlier also. I've seen houses in my 'hood with Halloween decorations up by late September.
Peace.
 
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Ok... This may be SLIGHTLY early.

But I love costumes so I am always crazy excited for Halloween. Do you celebrate? What have you dressed as? What are you dressing as this year?

I'm thinking for this year we may do Nick Lachey and Jessica Simpson since we are Newlyweds, but I'm not 100 percent decided.

110 days!
Not sure about a costume for me ... but here is our cat ... trying on the bat costume I bought him the other day.

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Not sure about a costume for me ... but here is our cat ... trying on the bat costume I bought him the other day.

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I bought the same costume for my little one, but it hasn't arrived yet. Very cute! And a beautiful cat!
 
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