It was inevitable but I really thought that I had a few more years before having to deal with this so I was totally unprepared.
I was talking with my 9 year old about her teacher that she doesn't like too much and out of the blue she said, "everyone says he's married to another boy you know...". Well...I've seen her teacher and he does look like he plays for the "other team", but I try not to jump to conclusions since my ex husband was the same way and obviously two kids and an affair later, he's still hetero.
Anyhoo I said, "oh do you know what that is called?" And she said, "yeah, mom, he's gay".
Mind you she still doesn't know how to make a baby other than what I told her which was that when mommies and daddies love each other they give each other a "special" hug.
I said, "what does being gay mean?" and she said, "he likes boys instead of girls and I think two boys kiss too". Then she said, "when girls are gay they're called lesbians".
I explained to her that yes this is the term and that sometimes people are born that way and it's not their fault. (that is what I believe).
anyway don't know if this thread is legal or not since I'm a bit fuzzy on when it's kosher and when it's not to bring it up in here but two Sundays ago at the children's mass our priest talked a long time about a new petition in Massachusetts going around and how Archbishop O'Mally wants us all to sign it to reverse the gay marriage law. I was a bit shocked that he did this at the children's mass 'cause I wanted to explain this in my own way in my own time but I guess apparently that time has come.
Are there any Catholic books out there that guide parents in broaching this subject or explaining it when it's already been broached? (much to the parent's chagrin!!! )