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[creed107]

i wass hopin i would not have to go throught this again but here i am my problem is that my friends sis/ my gf wants my to buy her some booze and smokes and our town is the kind like her would get beaten tryin to get this stuff so should i get it for her or let her get it her self

 

[somethinfishy]

Uhhh...If you are 15, how are you going to get it?

That point aside, 1) It's illegal for you to buy it, and 2)it would be more illegal to give it to another minor.

Yes, it is wrong, no, you should not do it, and no, you shouldn't encourage her to get it herself.

Also, I know these weren't in your questions, but here are the answers...No, she shouldn't be your girlfriend, and yes, you should find some different friends (I know that this can be hard, but there are good ones out there...).

 

[creed107]

the ppl i would get it off ove arent my friends and she i going through a hard time her moms getting devorced again and alot of her friends left her cuz she did something that wasnt "cool" and her bro dont care wat she does.

 

[fishstix]

i wass hopin i would not have to go throught this again but here i am my problem is that my friends sis/ my gf wants my to buy her some booze and smokes and our town is the kind like her would get beaten tryin to get this stuff so should i get it for her or let her get it her self

You should not get it for her and she should not get it for herself either. No one should get it for her. You're 15 buddy; it's illegal for you to buy cigarettes and alcohol in this country.

the ppl i would get it off ove arent my friends and she i going through a hard time her moms getting devorced again and alot of her friends left her cuz she did something that wasnt "cool" and her bro dont care wat she does.

That's all the more reason for her not to have tobacco and alcohol. Smoking and drinking is not going to solve any of her problems - and it's going to give her extra problems. You say her friends and her brother don't care about you - I assume that you're implying that you do care. Well if you really care, show it by *not* getting her tobacco or alcohol and by encouraging her not to use them at all.

Furthermore, the kind of people who would sell tobacco and/or alcohol to a 15 year old and who would possibly beat a young girl if she tried to buy it are certainly *not* the kind of people you should be buying anything from. Those are the kind of people who should be reported to the cops. Who knows what kind of junk they might add to your cigarettes or push you to buy from them later on...

 

[bubblegirl23]

Creed,

If she needs a stress relief, I'd suggest sugar! They won't leave her with a bad addiction. Another stress reliever is exercise. It starts up the body's endorphins. Basically, don't let her do anything that could cause damage to her future. If things are really bad at home for her, I would consider taking her for some escape time at the beach.

The most sensible thing to do is let her talk to a counsellor. She is sure to have some bad times in the future and may benefit from someone knowledgable on it. If your parents are divorced maybe you could be her listener.

Bubs

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[LegomasterJC]

She doesn't need drugs, drink, or even sugar. She needs God. If you can help her recieve that truth, great. But if your relationship with her is bringing you down and not her up, it is not a healthy relationship.

 

[Lyle]

i wass hopin i would not have to go throught this again but here i am my problem is that my friends sis/ my gf wants my to buy her some booze and smokes and our town is the kind like her would get beaten tryin to get this stuff so should i get it for her or let her get it her self

Ok, say you and your friend are walking through town and tere just so happens to be something in the road before you that might cause your friend to trip. Now, since you kow that your friend is already going to trip over this, or might, does it mean that you should go ahead and trip them? No... You shoudl buy her nothing. Not only will it cause her to sin, but you as well. Since it is illegal for you to purcase any of the such..

 

[Melody42]

This seems very cut and dry to me...

 

[TheMainException]

Pray hard dear brother. Don't let her go get it by praying. Pray as hard as you know how and pray that you might be given the words to say...but don't go and buy her any...never do that.

 

[Ginga]

Don't get it for her man. Although you have good intentions with wanting to protect her, you should never do anything that is wrong, even if it is for a good reason. I'm assuming that she is around the same age as you, and so just talk to her. Try to introduce her to Jesus. Tell her that she is trying to fill a gap in her life the wrong way. She will never get a long term relief from the things that are hurting her by drinking and smoking. Try to let her fill this gap in her life with Jesus. Talk to her about this instead of the booze. And pray for her tonnes. Pray that she would open her heart to the Lord, and that she might come to know him as a personal friend and saviour. God bless man, and good luck