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Hi. I'm a 33 year old guy who has taken on joint guardianship with my wife of her 7 year old biological nephew. He has ADHD and 7 years of growing up in a chaotic household with his mom and grandparents. Is it appropriate for me to join in on this forum? If not, where else on CF do you suggest I go for discussing parenting issues?
 

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Welcome to CF, my 15 year old has AD/HD, it is an interesting journey my friend, filled with joy and frustration. I hope you do some serious reading about ADHD, check out the CHADD sites and find other parents who are dealing with this issue for support.
 
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Welcome to CF, my 15 year old has AD/HD, it is an interesting journey my friend, filled with joy and frustration. I hope you do some serious reading about ADHD, check out the CHADD sites and find other parents who are dealing with this issue for support.

My wife is a Master's level mental health clinician for children, so I pull on her knowledge a lot. Also, she's helped to raise him from day one, so she combines the two and is a pretty good resource for me. But she still says on a regular basis that it seems everything she knows goes out the window when it comes to raising your own loved one.
 
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Welcome to CF, my 15 year old has AD/HD, it is an interesting journey my friend, filled with joy and frustration. I hope you do some serious reading about ADHD, check out the CHADD sites and find other parents who are dealing with this issue for support.

Thanks for the referral. I'm looking at the CHADD site right now. Looks like a really good resource.
 
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Welcome! :wave: I have ADHD, but I can't help much. I never researched it, so what I generally tend to think of as my personality are actually parts of this "disorder". Never bothered me, still doesn't bother me. Hey! Look at the puppy...Oh, sorry. :blush: ;)
 
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Welcome! :wave: I have ADHD, but I can't help much. I never researched it, so what I generally tend to think of as my personality are actually parts of this "disorder". Never bothered me, still doesn't bother me. Hey! Look at the puppy...Oh, sorry. :blush: ;)

ROTFLOL:D
 
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