Despite how it may "feel" there is just never a situation, truly NEVER, where God speaks to you and tells you to divorce your spouse.
So you believe that God doesnt 'speak' thru His own word then ?
His word says 'except for fornication' so apparently in that sort of case even HE could be 'speaking' that divorce is within His will.
have you studied this matter out as far as going back to Exodus 21 and seeing a tad bit more of the whole picture.
There is also zero basis for this concept of praying to God for a "release" from your vows.
Actually, given the details of Numbers 30, Id say this is a pretty good 'concept' entirely.
Again, have you READ Numbers 30 to see any more of the whole picture about vows and oaths ?
I do not judge those who divorce...I have done it as well in my long ago past...before I met my Savior.
And that Savior has Himself given exception showing that there ARE conditions that are UNacceptable within His covenant of marriage.
But it grieves me to see the scriptures so toeed aside as Ive read here. That the "real sin" is hard hearts and therefore as it stands with divorce anything goes...or that you can pray to be released, or worse, how your bad marriage can be SO dishonoring to God that it is actually God honoring to end it........poppycock.
So you believe that if a husband wants to have a three way sex fest with his young wife....INSISTING that she partake of it, that somehow that can be 'honoring' God to remain in it ? Poppycock..
And please dont give me any lines about exaggerating.
I deal with marriages every single day and I can name off a few cases of this sort of thing. Its not as uncommon as some want to believe.
One item that comes to mind very quickly is a man who wanted to 'trade' her to two homosexual men for an hour to do with as they wanted for a 12 pack of beer.
There is very little chance of you convincing many here, especially me, that it would 'honor' God to remain in that perverse 'marriage' or that God would be DIShonored by its being ended.
All marriages are acts of obedience
Oh...?
...really ?
So when I was about to marry my first wife and God literally spoke to me in an audible voice and told me not to marry her and even detailed out EXACTLY what she was going to do so that I woudnt marry her....and I married her anyway against what He said to me....that was an 'act of obedience' ?
I think you need to think things thru before making claims, quite frankly.
...and worthy to be worked and saved.
Apparently not or there would be no exception given by Christ.
Its very strange that the gospel of Jesus Christ is all about sacrifice...putting the needs of others BEFORE ourselves....knowing we will have trials and counting those as tests of and strengtheners of our faith, and taking joy in them EXCEPT in the divorce arena...then we stand the gospel on its head with comments like "God wants me to be happy" ,
Sure He does....but no where in scripture does God tell us to put our comfort ABOVE that of others....including in marriage...period...its not there. And where kids are involved???? He in NO WAY puts YOUR comfort above the children.
PUH-lease.
This isnt about MY needs ABOVE others needs.
In MANY cases it is about broken marital vows and life threatening situations and abandonment.
Im not sure what bible you are reading but I see all thru mine starting way back in Exodus 21 where God does show that HIS rules for marriage and how a spouse is to treat the other present that marriage IS to be something that is at least tolerable.
Sorry...my opinion is pretty unpopular.
Unpopular should be the least of your concerns.
Outright erroneous is where you need to focus your attention.