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(I tend to ramble on in my posts, so I apologize if this becomes very drawn out and tedious).

Greetings to everyone here on this forum! Here is my background story:

I was raised in a non-devout Catholic family (we attended mass and went through the motions of worship, but there was hardly any instruction or even mention of God except in very general terms in my family). When I was about 17 or so, my father went through a conversion to a non-denominational church under the teachings of a particular pastor in Arkansas. I tried studying the Bible under this pastor and felt at one time that I had really gotten into it; however, over time the interest fell away. I remember my brother (who is an atheist) asking me about why I did what I was doing--wasn't it all based on a "feeling" without any evidence? I thought what he said made sense; therefore I put away my Bible, went out into the world, and found it very pleasurable and enjoyable.

I went to college, graduated, met someone with whom I thought I would want to spend the rest of my life. Basically I became quite agnostic though functionally an atheist--at some points really feeling more atheistic than agnostic. The person I met is an atheist. He remains liberal as I once was.

Meanwhile, in regards to my family, my father continues with his non-denominational church. My mother is largely agnostic--she tries to follow along with the non-denominational teachings which my father strongly believes in, but does not believe as strongly as he does. I'm not sure about my sister; we don't talk too much and not at all of religious topics when we do talk. My brother is a devout atheist (he despises all religion).

About three to four years ago, I went through a period in my life which is personal to me (though I will discuss if questioned), and I changed quite a bit (becoming even more liberal than I once was); yet there was also a spiritual element which began to develop in it. About this time, I began to become involved in historical research (of the civil war time period, of which I had an interest on and off since the eighth grade), and in September of last year I began some serious research into one particular historical person whom I became interested in for no particularly apparent reason.

One thought which occurred to me while researching this person was, "What better way to get to know someone who is very religious (since he was) than to try to understand their faith?" This person was a Presbyterian, so I started reading a book about the history of the Southern Presbyterian Church. I thought I would be bored to death and keep falling asleep during it, but to my surprise I found it intensely interesting. It kept mentioning this "Westminster Confessions of Faith" so I decided to get a copy of it and read it.

It was one of the most fascinating, compelling, and emotionally invoking things I had ever read. Just about everything in it made so much sense. After I had finished with that and the Larger and Shorter Catechisms, I started reading the Bible and it was like I had never read it before. After a time of reading it every Sunday I felt a strong compulsion to go to church for public worship as well as private worship of God. I felt really drawn to the Orthodox Presbyterian Church (on their official website, they have a Q&A page which to me really demonstrates a powerful message about who and what they are. I feel very drawn to that denomination), but there is no church that is close by to where I live.

So I am currently attending a PCA church (Presbyterian Church of America, which is supposedly similar to the OPC). I've wanted to move out east for a long time mainly because I enjoy the weather more out there than I do here. Now there are many more reasons for why I want to move there, and I hope to do so within one to two years; however, much of that will depend on whether I can find employment.

Well, that's about how I got to where I am right now. Which is in Henderson, NV where I've been for the past eight years. I've changed so much; before I was very liberal and now have rather conservative values. It is mainly because of this that I want to move back east; I hope to one day have a family and would not like to have that here where the environment seems so liberal.

I'm glad to have found this site and hope it will be informative and helpful.

Thanks to all who made it through reading this.

Sincerely,
Anne
 
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Welcome to CF, Anne!
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Hi Anne:
Thanks so much for your testimony. I have had a vaguely similar experience. It's interesting. I am not a strong believer in childhood baptism because I feel that baptism is a personal choice to follow christ. When I was baptized as a very young boy, I had no idea who and what Christ was. However... there could be something to it. It's almost like God knows who his children are. He lets us go and experience "the world" but we all come back to him. I was an agnostic too for most of my life. I would always say that if I could only see it I would believe. It was not until a christian friend of mine passed away did I humble myself to make a very simple prayer to God. I simply asked for Jesus to reveal himself to me if he was in fact real. He never showed up at my doorstep and I have never seen him nor audibly heard him, however I am convinced that the holy spirit has very gently revealed Jesus and the truth of God to me. Every time I would go on quite walks and ponder a biblical question the holy spirit would fill my thoughts with the biblical truth and why. It was really quite cool. Anyhow...I guess my point is that perhaps if we are introduced to Jesus as youths he claims us as his...and he will never let us go. We are his and we respond to his voice and his message.
God bless you Anne. Thanks again for your testimony and welcome to CF.
 
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Thank you so much, Tigger and Saved. I pray always that my faith will remain and grow; the love of God is all the light to me and the world is so gray and empty--it is a fearful thought to be once again under it's dominion, having lived that way for so long.

Over the weekend I had some wonderful conversations with people who believe as I do, and I feel it is a wonderful way to build up faith and support. I've always yearned for such conversations; even when attending a church of a very close denomination to the one which I want to be a part of, I never experienced it. However, I finally met some people who are of yet a different denomination--yet the conversations which I was yearning for finally took place and it was exhilarating! I wonder now if this is the path which God has chosen for me--to be in this denomination instead of the other. I will pray that He will make the path He wants me to walk known to me.
 
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Hello Anne, thank you for sharing your very uplifting testimony, please read my testimony on my profile page in the box (about me) as it is so good to share our experiences and our faith how the Lord has led us to him and the true gospel of grace.

I pray that the Lord keeps leading and guiding you as you keep searching his face and his presence. That he works powerfully into your life as you step into promise.

May your stay here be blessed.

 
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Wow what a story. I suspect there is far more too it than mentioned; but, I'm sure you'll get around to expressing the details later. I went through a lot of struggles with my beliefs as well; but, some good friends and some divine intervention put me on the right track again. :)
 
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