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What causes that deep need to grandchildren some of us have? I find myself disappointed and saddened that my children son age 30 and daughter 27 have no desire to have children - ever. My son who is unmarried, isn't dating, let alone interested in marriage and feels the world is "over populated enough", and does not want children. Our daughter, who has a good heart, also doesn't want children, and is very honest in that she doesn't want the responsibility. This may be a good thing, since she can't seem to be responsible for her own day to day affairs.
Today I came across a photo of my late parents, tucked away in a book; taken when they were dating during WWII. As I'm safely putting it away in the family photo album, I couldn't help but think all the photos of my parents, grandparents and even great great grandparents, and most of the sentimental family heirlooms (wedding dress, Marine uniform, love letters, china, etc.) will more than likely be in a landfill in another 50 years - and that saddens me greatly. And those precious encounters of making cookies with grandchildren, teaching them to garden, reading Bible stories to them, the sticky, pudgy little hand in mine and the sloppy kisses will never happen.
So the deep desire for grandchildren? I asked my husband how he feels and he just shrugged and said, "It would be nice to have them around for a visit during the holidays, but it doesn't matter one way or the other." Spoke with a male cousin and he said, "Forget about it. Get a couple of lap dogs, travel and blow the kids inheritance......these kids are all spoiled brats anyway!" Ugh, ok.
I'm hoping this deep desire for grandchildren will pass.
Can anyone relate? Thoughts?
What causes that deep need to grandchildren some of us have? I find myself disappointed and saddened that my children son age 30 and daughter 27 have no desire to have children - ever. My son who is unmarried, isn't dating, let alone interested in marriage and feels the world is "over populated enough", and does not want children. Our daughter, who has a good heart, also doesn't want children, and is very honest in that she doesn't want the responsibility. This may be a good thing, since she can't seem to be responsible for her own day to day affairs.
Today I came across a photo of my late parents, tucked away in a book; taken when they were dating during WWII. As I'm safely putting it away in the family photo album, I couldn't help but think all the photos of my parents, grandparents and even great great grandparents, and most of the sentimental family heirlooms (wedding dress, Marine uniform, love letters, china, etc.) will more than likely be in a landfill in another 50 years - and that saddens me greatly. And those precious encounters of making cookies with grandchildren, teaching them to garden, reading Bible stories to them, the sticky, pudgy little hand in mine and the sloppy kisses will never happen.
So the deep desire for grandchildren? I asked my husband how he feels and he just shrugged and said, "It would be nice to have them around for a visit during the holidays, but it doesn't matter one way or the other." Spoke with a male cousin and he said, "Forget about it. Get a couple of lap dogs, travel and blow the kids inheritance......these kids are all spoiled brats anyway!" Ugh, ok.
I'm hoping this deep desire for grandchildren will pass.
Can anyone relate? Thoughts?