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James Is Back

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Hi Susie Q,How are you?
Man, yesterday afternoon and evening sucked big time. Let me tell you all that happened:

First, I found the "friend" that I had not communicated with in 8 years; I invited her to my FB page, she accepted. I naturally went to her timeline and said it was good to see her. She answered back and said she was fine, how was I. I replied and said fine and trying to get used to New Zealand. Out of courtesy, I asked how Mandy was, her daughter, well, a few minutes later, she sends a hateful reply, she said I was acting the same way I did when she had to unfriend me before, (she never was my friend before), she said she just friended me and I was already bothering her with post. She said " I guess I will have to remove you again" talk about talking down to someone, I am not a baby. She is a first class jerk. I mean of course I wrote on her timeline, it had been ages since I had heard from her. She said she did not want her page cluttered with my posts. :confused:


I thought folks had FaceBook to share and talk. She is nuts. Most of my friends on there say they will unfriend folks that DO NOT post on their timeline. She also blocked me, so, I have blocked her.

Second, I get a message from the former owner/breeder of Bella, the little puppy whose picture I posted. Well, she told me that I should NOT have shared that, as it was hers, and it is not done on FB. I did not know I did anything wrong, since the "share" capability was active, I thought it was ok, she asked me to delete it, so I did. Then, she tells me that some of my pictures of Bella are ugly, that I should only post good pictures of her. Well, to me, they are all good; she is the type, however, that if the dog does not look perfect, they are no good to look at. She said it was most upsetting to see those pictures and to please delete them!!!:confused: I am like What the heck? These are my pictures, she does not own her anymore. I told Steve, he did not take up for me, what else is new, it is always I who has to understand the other person, he told me not to write her back a reply, well, the heck with him, I did, but it was Christian. I told her I would take the pictures off, but not to except Laddie or Bella to look as good as when they had her as I am not a professional groomer or handler. I removed the pictures, and she did thank me. Now, however, I will be a nervous wreck as to what to post.

Third, I went to the doctor in the afternoon, it is a miracle folks are alive in New Zealand, the care here is lousy, I was on the verge of tears and so angry by the time I left.
Anyway, for the last week, I have been having "female issues, I told her, but she did not want to check physically, she just gave me a test to do myself and had me give it back to her, she would not go any further. She said the lab will look at it and get back to me. I think they should have done a visual exam and other work, but nope, nothing. I HATE it here, I am definitely going to try to move to the states when I visit my aunt, my health issues can not be handled here. I am scared.

I showed her a rash I had, she had no idea what it was or what to say, she called it a "virus" I said "doesn't this look like Candida?": She just sort of laughed, I could tell she had no idea what I meant, so again, if it was not for my Naturopath back home working with me on some of this, I would be a mess.

I do not know how folks in NZ survive, I told Steve that no offense, but for my health issues, etc, I just can not live here, he is starting to understand.

Man, what an afternoon and evening as I said before.

I am seriously thinking of deleting the Facebook account. It is now no fun. I simply can not worry about what pictures of my dogs to post or not to post. I am told I should not post on others timeline, etc. I do not know what to do. I am also told that it is wrong to "share" things??? What the heck, I might as well not be on there.

Well, that is my rant for the day, aren't you glad I signed on today? LOL
 
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I am so sorry to hear that and think you should just ignore
these people who are bothering you. I agree people on facebook can
be nuts,I've been blocked by several people for bugging them on there.
I think you should stay on there,and just ignore anyone who is mean to you.
You are so sweet you don't deserve any of that,I also hope and pray you feel better soon.
 
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I am so sorry to hear that and think you should just ignore
these people who are bothering you. I agree people on facebook can
be nuts,I've been blocked by several people for bugging them on there.
I think you should stay on there,and just ignore anyone who is mean to you.
You are so sweet you don't deserve any of that,I also hope and pray you feel better soon.

I agree with Sunshine on this Susie :thumbsup:
 
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