So my fiance and I have been together for a little over a year now and known each other for 6 years. Right now it's a long distance relationship with us living in different states but, one day soon it won't be. As soon as he can afford it he's moving to my hometown to be with me and then we're planning to get married and move together out of the state I am currently in. When he does move here, we're considering whether to live together to save costs or get two separate apartments for that year or two where we'll be building our financial reserves and planning the wedding.
He and I both feel very strongly that we do not want to sleep together (or with anyone) until we are married, I know him and he would never force or pressure me into it, thankfully we have the same ideals about this since he is a Christian too. Still, we know that if we move in together it will be more tempting, but it would also allow us to save costs and figure out how compatible we are when we share living space. We have also considered taking a friend of mine in as a roommate to act as a 3rd source of income for expenses and an accountability partner to hold us to our promise to each other that we would wait.
I don't know, right now I just don't know what to do.