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they said i was like mean cause they are my friends from school
Well your troubled over your situation so you'd be on edge. Speak to your parents and tell them what happened. Are they Christians?
 
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thank you for helping me it really helped me overcome this but could you help me to get closer to god
i am really sturggling with my faith
Becoming closer to God is something u have to do on your own. Just continue to pray and let Him guide u. You're struggling because youre having these thoughts. Speak to your parents honestly about what happened. They love u and will do what they think is best for u. Including praying for u. Please go speak with them and they would get the help u need.
 
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ok but if the thougths come back could you help me again cause you are the only person that actually helped me and like didnt leave me cause i ask some and they helped me for 1 day and never answered again
Perhaps it's because I'm online which is why I'm responding to you right away. Many of the posters come and go...I'm gonna pm u so we can chat there
 
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hi i really need help because i keep getting thoughts that i sold my soul and that stuff and it really bothers me do you have anything to help with that because i been getting dreams that i did it i cant get theripist right now because covid 19 could anyone help me
This is a very typical obsession among Christians with OCD. Were you able to talk to your parents? What did they say? I can't remember if I sent you this website already, but I've found a lot of helpful information on it, especially in the blog posts: OCD & CHRISTIANITY – CHRISTIANITY. With OCD, we must learn to ignore our obsessive fears. With OCD, our brains have excess anxiety, so we tend to latch onto incidents/issues that most people would logically be able to dismiss as not a big deal. But what we do is start over-analyzing them, and our brains distort the issues and exaggerate them. We become unnecessarily afraid, and the more we dwell on the issues, the more real and big they seem. It's so important to learn how to ignore those fears, and to keep living our lives as best we can without giving into what the OCD wants us to do. I can talk more about how to do this if you want.
 
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