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You are painting with too broad a brush. You say "[The atheist Democrat] will say it is all a matter of choice."
I disagree. It is not a matter of choice. It is about non-judgement and the "do-no-harm" principle. Atheists (in general) accept "alternate lifestyles" like homosexuality and transgenderism because they don't seem to be harming anyone else.
Not all moral decisions are a "matter of choice" for atheists. Notice how no atheist is supporting someone's choice to be a cannibal because cannibalism inherently harms others.
Your whole premise about "matter of choice" is false from the get go.
No liberals get round this one by speaking in terms of the inviolability of the individual. By extension the principle is I respect your choices except when they trample on those of others. But it is still about choice. Cannibalism is an interesting one cause here in Germany people have actually consented to be eaten. But that is regarded as someone who is not able to make clear choices and therefore a violation of choice per see.
You are dragging the Christian notion of "sin" into secularism.
More like secularism is doing its best to ignore it!
People absolutely have the right to judge my choices and put me in prison if my choices harm others (i.e. murder, rape, etc.). But if my choices/decisions/preferences do not harm anyone else, then what is there to judge?
But again the principle here is the inviolability of the individuals capacity to choose for themselves. Interestingly it is a principle that is in fact violated in the case of abortion as the childs choices are not respected.
Derail (this probably belongs in a different thread):
I will say something here which is probably not a very popular opinion among many progressives: transgenderism has all the characteristics of a mental illness and is classified as such by psychologists and psychiatrists. To me, encouraging a gender dysphoric person to embrace their transgenderism is the same as encouraging a schizophrenic to embrace their delusions and hallucinations as real or an alcoholic to embrace their alcoholism and drink more.
Understanding something scientifically as a mental illness does not mean that I am making any moral judgement of their lifestyle. For example, I do not judge someone as immoral for having schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. But I think society is approaching the hot button topic of transgenderism from the wrong perspective: one of moral hyper-inclusivity rather than scientific and medical evidence.
By the way #1: There are also other legitimate biological birth defects which complicate the conversation (e.g. when a baby is born without proper genitalia or when a baby is born with an XXY chromosome (Klinefelter), etc.)
Well we seem to agree on the broad science (facts are facts) . there are complicated and rare exceptions where the biology is really mixed up but generally as you say this is more akin to a mental illness than an actual state of being. But it raises questions as to how you judge someone is not making considered choices and when mental illness has warped their ability to choose to the point that we do not have to respect it. The principle you argue from here does not respect any absolute sense of right or wrong and still allows for judgment based on a reading of mental illness. The difference is that it is psychologists and doctors that take the place of priests in making this moral decision.
By the way #2: Homosexuality (the sexual preference for your own sex) is not the same thing and is less commonly accompanied by dysphoria. Homosexuality is a subjective preference rather than a claim of an objective state of being. Saying "I prefer dogs to cats" is different than saying "I am a dog". So homosexuality is emphatically not a mental illness.
A homosexual act is a choice just as a heterosexual one is a choice. Also some homosexuals are clearly mentally ill just as some heterosexuals are and their choices may be warped by that illness. But it is a different discussion than with transgenderism yes. The preference for relations with a member of ones own sex is not the thing that a Christian condemns as that may be deeply embedded in things outside of a persons control. What is wrong is when a person acts on those preferences. Again this a case when a Christian has an absolute standard that penalises them in some areas of their life and not in others where righteousness is effortless. While an atheist is only defining this in terms of the individuals situation , mental well being etc and their ability to make a choice that given that it is harmless to others is acceptable in their view.
I have no idea what you are saying or implying.
Clearly.
A couple things about this:
1) When abortion was illegal there was no government mandated statistics on abortion. All illegal abortions went unreported. So the "explosion" after Roe v Wade may be slightly over-inflated (although I do think that there was an overall increase).
2) The rate reached it peak in 1980 and has been dropping ever since as sex education and the availability of better birth control options become more and more popular. The rate has been halved since 1980. Abstinence-only education has never been shown to work effectively.
Because it is legal, women and girls have the ability to talk to doctors about it, get counselling and receive support as they struggle through a very difficult moral decision. Abortion is a complex moral topic and has been one for thousands of years.
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We both appear glad the rate has been coming down since 1980. Also I think providing sex education is better than the risk of encouraging immoral lifestyles since we are all human. In fact Christian women would benefit from hearing the painful stories of women who have had abortions and been haunted by them ever since. But alto often Counselling seems to be focused on excusing a woman's choice to kill her child rather than managing the choice to keep it and then perhaps give it up for adoption if she really cannot provide for it.
There is nothing here that challenges the assumption that ultimately the mothers choice and individuality is what is respected above all else.
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