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Hi everybody.
I wanna to talk about my problems , anxiety ,OCD and i get depression all of these things.
I remember i had a problem with masturbation i didn't take for sin , because i couldn't find in the Bible. One Day i believe the Holy Spirit told in thoughts it is sin , then i was reading about
sin against the Holy Spirit and i was scared. Then i heard blasphemous thoughts about ,God , Jesus and The Holy Sirit everyday (still sometimes I hear) My head told me i commited sin against the Holy Spirit ,God don't want to talk with me and care. He can't help me then i can't be free , everyday i afraid about my salvatore ,because a few days ago commited sin masturbation i regret it what i did but the bible says "
If because I know that we sin after knowing the truth, then there is no longer a sacrifice for sin" I've got obssesion and i afraid God could not forgive me. I got thoughts about sucide if God can't forgive me what i should live? I got diagnosed personality disoder i feel my life suck.There is hope for me yet? :(
 

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Hi everybody.
I wanna to talk about my problems , anxiety ,OCD and i get depression all of these things.
I remember i had a problem with masturbation i didn't take for sin , because i couldn't find in the Bible. One Day i believe the Holy Spirit told in thoughts it is sin , then i was reading about
sin against the Holy Spirit and i was scared. Then i heard blasphemous thoughts about ,God , Jesus and The Holy Sirit everyday (still sometimes I hear) My head told me i commited sin against the Holy Spirit ,God don't want to talk with me and care. He can't help me then i can't be free , everyday i afraid about my salvatore ,because a few days ago commited sin masturbation i regret it what i did but the bible says "
If because I know that we sin after knowing the truth, then there is no longer a sacrifice for sin" I've got obssesion and i afraid God could not forgive me. I got thoughts about sucide if God can't forgive me what i should live? I got diagnosed personality disoder i feel my life suck.There is hope for me yet? :(
Hebrews 6:4-6 must be taken into the context of the rest of Hebrews. Hebrews emphasizes several things:
  • That Jesus is the foretold Messiah
  • That the New Covenant through Jesus was also foretold
  • That the New Covenant is better than the old one.
  • That we may only be justified through Jesus, and the New Covenant must be kept to.
Hebrews 6:4-6 is on that last point. Christians of a Jewish background were being persecuted in their Jewish communities, and were feeling pressured to live like Jews did before Jesus came. The author was warning them not to do that, Jesus' sacrifice was the only sin sacrifice that counts now (which is on the third point).

You can come back to Jesus, and he will forgive you.
 
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There is hope for me yet? :(
Peter denied Christ 3 times and there was still hope for Peter. Jesus even told Peter ahead of time that he would deny Him. So Jesus also knew you will have obsessive and even blasphemous thoughts and would commit sins before He called you. It sounds like you are repentant and that's what matters.

Also the brain is a though producing organ and yours seems to ruminate overtime and on autopilot so its not your fault anyway.
 
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If there's no hope for you regarding that, then there's no hope for most of us lol. That's not to say it isn't a sin, but it's one probably most of us struggle with.

Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is this:

"And the scribes who came down from Jerusalem said, “He has Beelzebub,” and, “By the ruler of the demons He casts out demons.” ...

“Assuredly, I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the sons of men, and whatever blasphemies they may utter; 29 but he who blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has forgiveness, but is subject to eternal condemnation”— 30 because they said, “He has an unclean spirit.” Mark 3:22-30

Verse 30: because they said, “He has an unclean spirit.” Is what blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is. So unless you really think that about Jesus, you haven't committed that sin. And if you did think that about Jesus, you would think that He could not save you. Which is why it couldn't be forgiven.
 
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Hi everybody.
I wanna to talk about my problems , anxiety ,OCD and i get depression all of these things.
I remember i had a problem with masturbation i didn't take for sin , because i couldn't find in the Bible. One Day i believe the Holy Spirit told in thoughts it is sin , then i was reading about
sin against the Holy Spirit and i was scared. Then i heard blasphemous thoughts about ,God , Jesus and The Holy Sirit everyday (still sometimes I hear) My head told me i commited sin against the Holy Spirit ,God don't want to talk with me and care. He can't help me then i can't be free , everyday i afraid about my salvatore ,because a few days ago commited sin masturbation i regret it what i did but the bible says "
If because I know that we sin after knowing the truth, then there is no longer a sacrifice for sin" I've got obssesion and i afraid God could not forgive me. I got thoughts about sucide if God can't forgive me what i should live? I got diagnosed personality disoder i feel my life suck.There is hope for me yet? :(

Lets see.. fear.. when that comes up you say "God has not given me the spirit of fear but of power and love and a sound mind. Yeah ALL that fear? Not from God. See Hes not like man.. He said He will never leave you NEVER forsake you. No matter what you did or do He is ALWAYS with you and arms open wide.. yeah right now HE Is HOLDING YOU! He loves you.. that sin? There is no condemnation to them in Christ Jesus.. Jesus does not condemn you .. ever. You sin you goof up you miss it.. you get up dust off keep going trying not to sin again... in other words if we confess our SINS He is FAITHFUL to forgive you or your sin and cleans you from ALL unrighteousness. So forgive your self.

We are to forget those things behind us.. past. Don't focus on the sin focus on HIM! He is the vine you are the branches. Yes yes yes we all know in this world you can only goof up so many times before they MAN toss you out.. wont forgive you.. HE IS NOT MAN! He already died for ever sin you did or will do. That does not give us a right to sin. But we LIVE in this fallen world in a body of FLESH that loves to sin,.

See when you were born from above (Born again) something NEW was created in you.. why we put on the new man which after GOD is created in righteousness and true holiness. You are right now righteous and holy before the Father. Its not YOUR righteousness its Christ. The song playing right now is "TRUST IN JESUS" amen and amen.

So because you believe in Jesus YOU ARE righteous and holy. Its what CHRIST did not us. So focus on JESUS. He said what Christ has started in you.. HE WILL FINISH! Read Luke 11 13 and just do what Christ said.. know He will give..

So your not lost.. your in the Fathers hands.. He will NEVER let you go. Try to remember this when all those negitive thoughts and fear come at you? FLIP THEM! Yeah Satan can not tell the truth! Christ is the vine you are the branches.

Now ANY sin you might be stuck in? RUN TO JESUS NEVER AWAY! He can't really help us when we try to do it fix it our selfs. No focus on Him what He did for you that He loves you.. you will find some day out of now where.. you just wont like doing that sin any more.. JESUS IS REAL! Yeah no matter what HE IS ALWAYS with you. right now HE IS HOLDING YOU! So just shhh relax let His peace come.. His joy, His armor, His strength <---every one of those is in the bible and its not you. its all HIM! Hes got you covered. If you sin get up dust off repent keep going!

You ok :) The enemy is just lying to you.. be at peace in JESUS name
 
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I don't believe for one moment that God has rejected you. In fact, I believe that our Lord has an incredible soft spot for people like you, people who have gone through struggles in life with their physical and mental heath, and He longs to reach out to you with His compassion and care.
You care so much about your salvation and love the Lord very much, evidenced by the fact you have chosen to share your story with us, your hopes, dreams and fears so candidly and so honestly.
I look forward to seeing you in that great banquet in heaven. I am pretty confident that you will have one of the best seats and that you will receive a very warm hug from our Saviour who loves you so intimately and so dearly.
 
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anxiety ,OCD and i get depression all of these things.

May I first congratulate you on your excellent English.

Please use Google to search for the online article 25 tips for successfully treating your ocd.
This was written by a psychologist to help his patients.

One of its important points is to do with intrusive thoughts. Those unwanted thoughts that accuse you of sin, tell you to do or say things you don't want to etc.
These are dealt with by simply acknowledging them, not by debating or arguing or trying to ignore them, simply by saying or thinking, ' yes that is right, ' and then moving on.

Jesus leaving you! That is a frightening thought, but a good sample of an intrusive thought as Jesus has promised never to leave us.
But what about our persistence sins?
As 1 John 1:9 says if we admit our sins he/God is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
 
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I don't believe for one moment that God has rejected you. In fact, I believe that our Lord has an incredible soft spot for people like you, people who have gone through struggles in life with their physical and mental heath, and He longs to reach out to you with His compassion and care.
You care so much about your salvation and love the Lord very much, evidenced by the fact you have chosen to share your story with us, your hopes, dreams and fears so candidly and so honestly.
I look forward to seeing you in that great banquet in heaven. I am pretty confident that you will have one of the best seats and that you will receive a very warm hug from our Saviour who loves you so intimately and so dearly.
Honestly? Thank You so much! It kind to read this! Your words are nice for me.
I'm feel better right now.
May God bless you!
 
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