glances

[soyness]

what do glances between men and females men? or when eyes are averted when they say hi? If a guy does that (steal glances to a women) does that mean that he is interested in her/ thinks she's pretty/ etc? I had that happen and i just get confused.

 

[Niels]

He's probably wondering why she's looking at him!

 

[soyness]

But what if the guy started the "glancing"?

 

[Niels]

But what if the guy started the "glancing"?

It's hard to say. Talking to him should give you a better idea. I've found that people who make eye-contact with me are usually open to conversation. Unless they're glaring at you, eye contact is often a sign of friendliness.

 

[bogie]

It's hard to say. Talking to him should give you a better idea. I've found that people who make eye-contact with me are usually open to conversation. Unless they're glaring at you, eye contact is often a sign of friendliness.

I agree with the above. I tend to think that the first glance could mean a million different things, so I usually look for that second glance. The chances of fondness are greater, I think from the second glance.

 

[soyness]

i really meant glancing from time to time

 

[chanis]

if he's glancing from time to time then I would think he's interested in something...

 

[Sketcher]

Most of the time that's correct. Of course, in addition to being a red-blooded American male, I am also an artist. Sometimes I'll see someone who is visually interesting, but ugly as sin. So I'll want to study that face or whatever. I try very hard not to appear like I'm giving off signals, though. So that is the exception to the rule.

 

[treerootbill]

Either he is interested or there is something strange about you.
The best person to make a judgement about his meaning is you as you were there.

 

[boilerblues]

I tend to steal glances at girls I like, but it doesn't always mean something. Sometimes I'm trying to look at everyone and sometimes there just happens to be something else there worth looking at. Or maybe I'm trying to figure out if she has a mustache

Usually a guy stealing glances (and you can often tell the difference) is a good sign they at least find you interesting.

 

[JPPT1974]

People have glanced at me either because I am pretty or I am alone. I tend to be glanced when I am all by myself since I do tend to be a loner at times. Not as bad as I used to be. But still...a loner is a loner.

 

[boilerblues]

This thread just reminded me of an old John Mayall and the Bluesbreakers song

"I was looking back to see if she was looking back to see if I was looking back at her"

or something like that.....it's been a while since I've listened to it.