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Oh, I just wanna hug that guy. That is what mine looked like, but It wasn't as wide spread...it was on my back, chest and stomach, neck, jawline, scalp, shoulders. Sometimes in the inner arm at the elbow.

We even found some dryer sheets that contained panthenol. I use all fragrance free laundry detergents (currently All) , and only use unscented dryer sheets in the winter when static sets in.

I just feel so bad for him, because I know how he feels, and it is so frustrating. I lived with topical steroids on my skin daily for years, and wonder how that will affect me in the long run.

In my 20's I did find a couple of lotions that seemed to act as partial barriers on my skin against the then "unknown" cuase. The best one I don't even think is around any more. It was The Body Shop Unscented lotion....I think it's base was brazillne nut. I couldn't use it on my face or I'd get acne, but it helped on my chest and back. It never completely blocked my exposure to the irritant, but it helped. (Finding out the cause was the only thing that really made a change.)

I'd also use straight mineral oil sometimes (it is the same ingredient as baby oil, but no scent...you get it in the laxative section LOL! So don't let him drink it or he'll be spending a day in the biffy!) It is a safe non-irritating way to sooth the skin. And you know there won't be any added ingredients that way.

For heat rash, which also can make the skin more open to eczema reaction, use plain corn starch...not the babypoweder corn starch (which again contains perfumes and addetives).

I've never run into any problems with the Aveno products. I currently use Aveno Skin Relief Body Wash for my shower gel (tan bottle, aqua colored top and lable), since it is fragrance free, and my skin is still dry...even if it isn't reacting.

Just some thoughts. Hope they help.
 
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Oh, I just wanna hug that guy. That is what mine looked like, but It wasn't as wide spread...it was on my back, chest and stomach, neck, jawline, scalp, shoulders. Sometimes in the inner arm at the elbow.

We even found some dryer sheets that contained panthenol. I use all fragrance free laundry detergents (currently All) , and only use unscented dryer sheets in the winter when static sets in.

I just feel so bad for him, because I know how he feels, and it is so frustrating. I lived with topical steroids on my skin daily for years, and wonder how that will affect me in the long run.

In my 20's I did find a couple of lotions that seemed to act as partial barriers on my skin against the then "unknown" cuase. The best one I don't even think is around any more. It was The Body Shop Unscented lotion....I think it's base was brazillne nut. I couldn't use it on my face or I'd get acne, but it helped on my chest and back. It never completely blocked my exposure to the irritant, but it helped. (Finding out the cause was the only thing that really made a change.)

I'd also use straight mineral oil sometimes (it is the same ingredient as baby oil, but no scent...you get it in the laxative section LOL! So don't let him drink it or he'll be spending a day in the biffy!) It is a safe non-irritating way to sooth the skin. And you know there won't be any added ingredients that way.

For heat rash, which also can make the skin more open to eczema reaction, use plain corn starch...not the babypoweder corn starch (which again contains perfumes and addetives).

I've never run into any problems with the Aveno products. I currently use Aveno Skin Relief Body Wash for my shower gel (tan bottle, aqua colored top and lable), since it is fragrance free, and my skin is still dry...even if it isn't reacting.

Just some thoughts. Hope they help.
Oh we have tried Aveno products, and they seem to burn him, and I make sure they do not have any perfumes in them.

thanks for all the info, I been getting lots of info from lots of people, I will try anything once.
 
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Hmmmm.....if aveno products seem to burn for him.....

That is what is hard. What is innocuous for one person can be an allergic response for another.

I know this might sound like a pain in the ***, but if you aren't yet, keep a journal of reactions, if there is a removable paper lable on something, cut it out and tape it, and you may be able to find a common component at some point. I wish I had done that from the start....it might have been a shorter round with it. Not everything will give you ingredients (like dryer sheets...you have to call the company to get answers at times).

And don't let anyone tell you that something can't be an allergen or and irritant because it is "natural" or "pure" or dermatologist recommended. Human beings are more of an art than a science, and we cannot be cookie cuttered into black and white areas when it comes to sensitivities in skin and allergies.

I'm also allergic to one of the chemicals in many sunscreens (you should see how my eyes swell up like I've been stung by bees). I have to ARGUE with people, including doctors and people who sell skin products that I will react to this chemical. I finally had one dermatologist who said many people of scandanavian descent have that reaction to that product. It isn't the sunscreen itself, but a base that it is held in. I still go to that guy, of course. He knows his stuff.
 
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LOL....I just remembered, last year, I used a spray on formulation of a fake tanner I'd used before. But the one before was a mouse. Within a half an hour, I itched all over my body. That stuff doesn't come off easily once it is on. It was a miserable week. ti was something in the spray....I had it happen again later with a spray on aloe mist. At least that one washed right off.

Lesson learned.
 
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Well right now I am cooking lunch, and making seth clean his room, I will go in there and help him, but right now he is being punished for talking back to me, so he gets to spend a few minutes by himself, and I know he isn't cleaning, but I will go in there and supervise after lunch.

I need to go excersie too. Make the beds, besides seth's I need to wash his sheets. and get some laundry done. My kitchen is pretty well cleaned, I have a few dishes, and I am cooking a good dinner tonight, but I have no clue what to call what I am making ^_^.
 
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I just read your :thumbsup: rep response....you should make-up a name for it! Have fun!
Well its Stew meat, I take my stew meat, and coat it in seasonging then I cover it in flour on all 4 sides, and put just enough oil in my pan to cover the bottom, brown each side of all my stew meat, then I add some water, and my veggies, celery, carrots, potatoes, and onions, let it boil together until all the veggies are tender, then I take all of that out, and then make my gravey, and put all my veggies and meat back in, and dinner is done. I usely serve it over rice.
 
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I'd call it "stew"... and if you add cream and white wine, it becomes "stroganoff" (not sure on the spelling on that one, LOL!), but the REAL question is,

"What do you want to call it?" LOL! Good eating!
^_^ but its not stew, my gravy isn't stew gravy :p... I guess I could call it "Mini Roast" cus I cook it just like my roast :p
 
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The only thing I have left to do today is Laundry and start dinner, but the meat is thawing, I might need to run cold water over it... Ugg... and I am trying to pri seth off the floor with a prive to clean his toys out of the living room, it worked for a few toys, but now he has seemed to quit :doh: I told him if he cleaned his toys, I would clean his toys out of the living room, I would give him some ice cream, he did eat good lunch, but I don't normaly give icecream until after dinner, but I figured today was a new day :p
 
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I have been so busy that last 2 days.
Haven't had time to post a "to do" list!

So here's my "GOT 'R DONE" list for yesterday ^_^

Got all three boys up and dressed
got Nick on the bus
went to MD appt (one hour from my house)
returned videos to blockbuster
made it home just in time to get Stephen to preschool
came home, did the laundry, dishes, got lunch for Jake
changed Jake's poopy diaper...TWICE!
checked on DH...still sick.
Took Jake to get stephen from preschool
took stephen to doctor for follow up.
went throught the car wash on the way home
got home one hour b4 dinner was supposed to happen,
so i ordered a pizza and made a salad for dinner...
checked on DH again.
fed the boys, and cleaned up
gave the boys a bath and after PJ's on, put in a short video b4 bedtime (whew!)
got all their teeth brushed and flossed
read them two stories
tucked them all in
got Nick's backpack and lunch ready for a.m.
finally got to sit down!!!!!!! Exhausted!
 
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today's "GOT'ER DONE" list

got all three boys up and dressed again...i know...i do this daily!
DH had to get Nick on the bus today
because Stephen, Jake and I had to bug out by 8:30am to make it to MOPS by 9am.
got home about 12:30pm....
DH was lying on the couch....sent him to bed!
folded laundry
put another load in the dryer.
did the dishes
picked up the living room
got the boys lunch
Nick off the bus
snack time!
checked email and responded to important ones
now here i am!
almost ready to start dinner
 
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Well today lets see

Seth and I woke up at 8am, I made breakfast, and I am about to go make beds, straighten up the living room, get a shower, and get ready, my mom is coming to get us, and we are going shopping with her.
 
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