Hope I can get you guys' insight on my relationship
To make it simple, my (ex)girlfriend and I met on a Christian dating site. She was overseas back then and we only met up when she came home for Christmas (after 2 years of online chat).
We fell madly in love in real life. She introduced me to her parents and best friends. We even slept once. We acknowledged the mistake and agreed that it won't happen again until we get married. After we slept, she told me that she was sexually abused and sexually addicted before. She warned me that she is still long-term depressed & on medication and has trust issue with literally everyone including her family. And I promised her that I will just love her more because of these.
Before she returned to Europe in January, she decided that she will move back home for us in June. We agreed that I will propose to her when she returns (we are both in our early 30s and I was supposed to finish my medical degree this year).
10 days after she returned overseas I was informed that I failed a subject and cannot graduate this year. I told her honestly and she was very supportive saying that she will marry me even if I am not becoming a doctor. She even quit her job in Europe so that she can come back in February to support me.
However, just 2 week before she came back she decided to break up with me. Reasons being our relationship is NOT pure and I just used her for sex like all of her ex boyfriends.
Now she is back home. And she is jobless with no money and has to live at her parents' house which she doesn't like. But she doesn't want to see me or talk to me at all.
She went back to the Christian dating site and met a doctor in another state. And then she just deleted me on social medical and pushed me to remove our photos together...
I talked to a priest and my best friend who is also long-term depressed. Both of them advised me to give her space (and wait for maybe months)
Is it just her depression playing up? or is she just a gold digger? what shall I do?
To make it simple, my (ex)girlfriend and I met on a Christian dating site. She was overseas back then and we only met up when she came home for Christmas (after 2 years of online chat).
We fell madly in love in real life. She introduced me to her parents and best friends. We even slept once. We acknowledged the mistake and agreed that it won't happen again until we get married. After we slept, she told me that she was sexually abused and sexually addicted before. She warned me that she is still long-term depressed & on medication and has trust issue with literally everyone including her family. And I promised her that I will just love her more because of these.
Before she returned to Europe in January, she decided that she will move back home for us in June. We agreed that I will propose to her when she returns (we are both in our early 30s and I was supposed to finish my medical degree this year).
10 days after she returned overseas I was informed that I failed a subject and cannot graduate this year. I told her honestly and she was very supportive saying that she will marry me even if I am not becoming a doctor. She even quit her job in Europe so that she can come back in February to support me.
However, just 2 week before she came back she decided to break up with me. Reasons being our relationship is NOT pure and I just used her for sex like all of her ex boyfriends.
Now she is back home. And she is jobless with no money and has to live at her parents' house which she doesn't like. But she doesn't want to see me or talk to me at all.
She went back to the Christian dating site and met a doctor in another state. And then she just deleted me on social medical and pushed me to remove our photos together...
I talked to a priest and my best friend who is also long-term depressed. Both of them advised me to give her space (and wait for maybe months)
Is it just her depression playing up? or is she just a gold digger? what shall I do?