Girl Trouble!

[sonicflood]

Something quite trivial for the mix I'm afraid.

There's a girl I like and I'm pretty sure she likes me too, and I want to talk to her about it and talk about whether we should have a relationship, but she has exams on at the moment. Do you think that's the absolute worst time to be talking about such things?

It's probably an impatience thing - it's really not long to wait.

Any thoughts welcome!

 

[Kehaar]

Hey there

Welcome to CF!

I understand that you're impatient, suffer from the same problem myself

I think it would be advisable to leave this discussion until after her exams, but thats just me personal opinion. Why don't you suggest going out to celebrate whenthe exams finish? That could be a friendly way of going about asking her out and seeing what response you get

Good luck!

Astral

 

[Alternate Carpark]

Double posted--editied.

 

[Alternate Carpark]

It all depends on the personality type doesn't it.

For me I couldn't concentrate on exams if I knew that someone was interested in me and that I was spending alot of time anticipating when we would actually have that first meeting.

If I was in your position, I wouldn't go so far as to discuss a relationship, but I would go and talk to her and chat about everyday stuff, like the exams, how convienient is that !.
That way, the ice is broken and we have entered each others realms.
And this way I will know if she is in fact interested and if she is the type of person who would benefit form a little social interaction during the exams.

I suppose there is a lot of pressure to achieve well during exams, but a pleasant and brief social interaction is good for the soul during this time don't you think.
Like having a coffee together and discussing exams, that kind of stuff.

Of course you could just walk up to her and say, " Hi my name's sonicflood and I know that you are probably busy with exams, but would you marry me ? "

 

[sonicflood]

hehe! how about we make that plan b?

Just to clarify - we do already talk quite a lot so the 'ice is broken' to use your phrase.

I'm going to wait - it's only a couple of weeks after all. I don't think there's any sensible reasons why I'd want to discuss it earlier, just ones based in impatient and probably selfishness too!