Girl Problem

[NaturallyGone]

Hey peoples, name's Ace. At the same time that I am new on here, I'm also not. I have an old account on here, but forget what my username is. Anyways, I currently attend a private Christian University, and am interested in a young woman. However, due to things in my past, I'm afraid to risk possibly getting hurt again. but I REALLY like this girl. I don't know how she feels about me either though. Plus, the school year is almost over, and it would seem weird to start a relationship with only about 2 weeks of school left. What should I do? I truly think God might be saying to try asking the girl out, but I'm not really sure. ANy and all advice or suggestions would be gladly welcomed.

 

[sylvianlight]

I think you have to go for it. Even if she rejects you, it's better than never having known if she would have accepted you. Also, even though you sound like you think you'll be incredibly hurt to be rejected, I see asking her out at all as a huge gain. You should gain confidence and grow more comfortable asking girls out. I'd say most guys who have never been rejected simply never asked a girl out.

Good luck.

 

[AwesomeWonder]

I would say go for it too Just think of it like this: if she agrees to go on a date with you, it could be the start of something awesome, and if she doesn't, then you haven't actually lost anything. It's a win-win situation, or at least a win-neutral situation Especially as there's only two weeks left!

Best of luck. Pray that God's will be done - you could perhaps pray that he will influence this young woman's heart, so that if it is part of God's plan that you have a relationship with her, she'll respond with a positive

xxx

 

[SiXe]

I agree with the two posts above me.

Best thing to do is try, least you can say you did that, insted of harbouring regrets.

 

[yam]

Go for it , there is nothing wrong with trying or else you will always wonder about what would have happen .

 

[NaturallyGone]

Update: I have yet to go out with any girl. the girl I was starting to like and I are currently working on reading through the book of Ezekiel, and, one day, while just talking, she mentioned that any guy she even considers dating first has to get her dad's permission, and that I wouldn't need to worry about that cause she just sees me as a friend.

 

[Virgil the Roman]

Play it safe.

 

[MusicLover242]

First sex her. Then maybe ask her out, if she's good.

If that fails, there are plenty of guys in the world, you know? They say but sex is quite relaxing! Have fun

 

[colorblindlover]

Update: I have yet to go out with any girl. the girl I was starting to like and I are currently working on reading through the book of Ezekiel, and, one day, while just talking, she mentioned that any guy she even considers dating first has to get her dad's permission, and that I wouldn't need to worry about that cause she just sees me as a friend.

Hello!

Well, it looks like you have her answer without having to go to the trouble of asking her out. While that's disappointing, her opinion of you may change as time goes on. I've heard so many stories of how God works in a girl's heart to show her how awesome a guy really is, who she formerly rejected or didn't see as a potential husband.

Your job now is to continue your Christian walk, be a man after God's own heart, and let Him develop your character. Seek His face, and He'll start giving you impressions of who He wants you to pursue. The key is don't focus so much on the girl you like, but direct your focus mostly on God.

When the time comes to pursue a girl, He'll give you favor with her. She'll begin to reciprocate the interest, and you'll be able to see if you both are compatible with one another and if your relationship is glorifying God (not idolizing one or the other).

 

[NaturallyGone]

First sex her. Then maybe ask her out, if she's good.

If that fails, there are plenty of guys in the world, you know? They say but sex is quite relaxing! Have fun

dude, really?! sex her first? really?! No!

 

[Virgil the Roman]

dude, really?! sex her first? really?! No!

It took you, that long to realise that she posted that!

 

[NaturallyGone]

don't really check it a whole lot.

 

[Virgil the Roman]

Ha ha. Just playing around a bit. All light-hearted humour; that is all.

 

[God's_friend]

Hello!

Well, it looks like you have her answer without having to go to the trouble of asking her out. While that's disappointing, her opinion of you may change as time goes on. I've heard so many stories of how God works in a girl's heart to show her how awesome a guy really is, who she formerly rejected or didn't see as a potential husband.

Your job now is to continue your Christian walk, be a man after God's own heart, and let Him develop your character. Seek His face, and He'll start giving you impressions of who He wants you to pursue. The key is don't focus so much on the girl you like, but direct your focus mostly on God.

When the time comes to pursue a girl, He'll give you favor with her. She'll begin to reciprocate the interest, and you'll be able to see if you both are compatible with one another and if your relationship is glorifying God (not idolizing one or the other) .

What a great piece of advice. Hey thanks I really needed that

 

[RipleyCountyChristian]

Even though she just sees you as a friend now, continue hanging with her, spending time together you know. Don't give up, her feelings could change.