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Getting two dogs to get along?

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dastangman

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Alright, I've had a Chihuahua named Chico for oh maybe 6 years. He is aggressive sorta, i mean weak obviously but aggressive. He's territorial, until lately with some stuff except food and doggy house thingy.

Well yesterday, my brother decided he needed his "own" dog, so he went to the shelter and came home with a Golden Retriever, it was abused, and was very beautiful. He hasn't neglected the dog, but he's 10 and forgets chores, like food and water so I make up for the slack.

Anyway, the two dogs have come in contact only once or twice believe it or not. The Retriever, Simba, stay outside until night, when she comes in and sleeps in her little bed, or unless it's raining, etc etc. Well, because I'm taking the slack and spending more time with Simba, she is hanging around me more, which is okay. But Chico, the Chihuahua is protective of me.

Chico continueally barks at Simba, and they chase around. Simba because of abusive past becomes scared, fighting back and then we have war. I don't want tiny little Chico to get his head bit off, but I don't want to get rid of either dog. I've even become attached in a short time to Simba.

Is this normal, and how can get such a small terratorial dog to accept a larger dog? Should they be around each other barking, or do I try and kep them separated (very difficult as time goes on.) Chico has been spoiled to say the least, and how can I get him to not be so controlling of Simba?
 

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Hmm.

We have a 9 yr old yellow lab...

For a bunch of reasons we decided we wanted a puppy...so we got one in January.

At first they DID drive each other nuts (moreso the younger one being too hyper for the older) but as time went on they could play together (ie chew same stick, swim together at cottage, etc)...I think the older one tolerates the younger, and the younger loves the new one.

Last night, the yuounger one refused to go for a walk without the old one.

I dunno, they're the same breed, so it might be differnet.

But if I were you, I'd give it time.
 
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We had one dog for almost four years, all by himself before we rescued Buddy. He was also abused and very scared of everything at first.

That first week I thought I was going to lose my mind because our first dog would not give Buddy a break. It was constant snapping and bullying. Over time they got used to each other. Now they are best friends. It just took them awhile. One thing that did help was that I made sure everything was always fair. If one got petted so did the other. If one got a chew toy, so did the other, etc. Plus I went out of my way to spend some one on one time with Pooh. Eventually he accepted Buddy as one of the pack. LOL!!

Good luck with your situation! I hope over time it all works out.
 
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I find that the best way to do stuff like this, is to introduce the two in a park somewhere and let them get to know each other outside of either one's territory, then go back to your house and let them work out their differences. Of course, to late for good first impressions in this case, but maybe you could take them both out to a dog park (if you have one near you), let'em off their leashes and see how they behave outside of chihuahua's land.
 
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RJ1 said:
One thing that did help was that I made sure everything was always fair. If one got petted so did the other. If one got a chew toy, so did the other, etc. Plus I went out of my way to spend some one on one time with Pooh.
Oh yeah, that part is very important too!
 
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fieldmouse3 said:
Time is probably the best thing for this situation right now...it's going to be tough because Chico has been the "only dog" for so long. Still, they'll probably get used to each other in time. :)
Chico is trying to establish hey I have been here longer so this is my territory, You need to let them know which has more power like maybe feed Chico first and then feed the new dog or if they want to play then play with Chico first and then play with the other one.
 
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